What about the girls always running away to their "mehkha" to their daddy. Then the parents mostly girl's mom blackmails the dude in to submission and fills him with propaganda which leads him away from his own family!!! What about the cunning techniques wives use to break large families and create quarrels among brothers?
They have a right to visit their families. Something which folks like you deny them the right to, which is RETARDED.
Girl's parents usually cower in front of their son-in-law in hopes he may not drop her off and never come back to get her.
I'm sure there are some girls who are cunning in this sense, but then if you keep going to villages to get a wife, then that's the crap you're gonna marry. :)