It's not JUST the inability to make decisions without mommy's approval that's off-putting..................more importantly it's the inability to look at issues in an objective manner that irks most women. And by that I mean.....the inability to realize that mommy is a human being and is not immune to making mistakes. The failure to see that mommy is not immune to jealousy and insecurity. The inability to realize that a mother and wife have different rights and places in a man's life ......and they can't be replaced by the other. They're too different to even be compared. It's the "My mommy is ALWAYS right, she's an angel, she can do NO wrong" that gets most women.
Well what if a mother is like that? What if by her extensive experience she can never be wrong? Certainly a 50 year old woman has more experience than girls in their teens, because thats when most Paksitani girls get married. I know some women who have so much experience from life and people that whichever decision they take always end up right. Its quite amazing.