Plain and simple fact is, those who are criticising the Tableeghis should be utterly and totally ashamed of themselves…
First of all, these guys leave their houses and their families to do the work of the Deen…They in many instances travel thousands of miles to deliver the message of Allah :swt: and come to you for your own good, to call you to the path…
So what if you don’t approve of their methods…I don’t, but it doesn’t diminish the fact that you were paid a visit by these guys and you couldn’t give them attention for a few minutes…
Where we are slaving and bowing to please our gora masters, these guys don’t even get the time of day from us…Where we are willing to show the ‘Kuffar’ how truly ‘educated’ and ‘civilized’ and gracious we are, we repel our own brothers who take the time out to do Allah :swt:'s work…
And it’s not like they come every day…Perhaps once every year or even less than that, and out of a year, we can’t properly treat our brothers inside our house by offering them something to eat and drink…We can just frown at them for invading our ‘privacy’…
How much does it take to listen to them…Even half heartedly…Nothing, yet we are not even willing to do that…20 minutes of our time is so precious that we close our doors on them…Shame on you all…Shame on all you ‘brothers’ who treat your guests like that who do so much for nothing, and all they get in return is the idea that they are intruding our privacy and closed doors on their faces…
Open up people…Be open hearted…20 minutes is not a whole lot of time spent on those who travelled so far to come to you…They don’t ask for anything, just that you listen to them…If for the sake of generosity you cannot even spend that much, then shame on you…
Rehman1 : talk to the hand coz you are out of the replies and all you can do is oppose :)
lajawab: brother, i respect them fully, and i know they are doing very noble cause, all i am against is their way of approaching people and then not listening to other peoples point of view:)
the problem is that kwel has a bad experiance …and it i s quite possible in abig jammat like this some ppl like this may creep in…however as i have personnal experiance with tableghees…i they normammy plan and ask about which time u r avaible etc…aaj he meray abba say milna aaye thay wo…after confirming to me when he lll be avaiabe…so it may be due to one odd personnal experiance which should be seen in isolatoion not extrapolated to whole jammaat …
That is not true. Most tableeghis that I know proudly call themselves as such. Infact I have even heard conversations like 'So-and-so went very far ahead in the tableeghi jamat' amongst their elders.
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yes....nam mashoor ho gaya hay,....otherwise they never started with a name...
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*Originally posted by kewlsolara: *
Rehman1 : talk to the hand coz you are out of the replies and all you can do is oppose :)
lajawab: brother, i respect them fully, and i know they are doing very noble cause, all i am against is their way of approaching people and then not listening to other peoples point of view:)
salaam bros,
Can i ask you one thing you go to work..how many of your co-workers know you are muslim?
Well, these days our work is important than jumma salat and you know i am not lying....
let me give you example:
one person selling Beer not praying almost out of islam and some muslim brothers come visit him he goes out understand islam goes toward Islam Stop seeling beer and start parying tell me whats worng in this picture.
these days we don't have guts to go to non-muslims and tell them about islam..even if you do go to them what will attract them..lets say i went to my non-muslim friend and told him about islam hes say why aren't you doing it..so, for us to send message to non-muslim we need examples real live examples. Can you tell me right now how many muslims following complete islam not pieces.very few..we are big in number...but we don't practice..
and one more thing..don't tell me dawah is only limited to dialouge..if you wear topi..beard, sunnah dress thats also dawah..