Re: Why don’t some desi moms..
Every other mom is like that. Every mom wants to have hold over his son. Even my mom is like that (although she does not admit it :p)
I want to share one funny incident with you all. One day my younger bro (he is just 19) bought fish. Mom cooked it and served it to him. He complained “ami fish main kaante bhot hain”… My mom replied… dekh lo, apni marzi ki laao ge tau aise hi kaante niklain ge… 
and then she started laughing.
If we have to stay away from such moms, phir tau humari shadi ho gi hi nahi