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This is the first time I am hearing that men change after marriage. It's normally women that change with time but boys remain boys. I guess the more sensitive men are becoming the more they are likely to change after marriage. My husband is from the sensitive bunch and yes he has changed a great deal but he hasn't changed the way he loves me.
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I think women change too.
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women change too IMO, almost as much as men, only thing is expectation is different, a lot of women want the honeymoon to go on forever and guys tend to get busy with bigger responsibilities of life. And some women also don't realize that all relationship change with time, so the best thing is to accept that and move on.
My husband has changes a lot over the last 15 years that I have known him we been married for 10...he went from mushy mush to a very responsible man..I feel eennn sometimes but it is part of the game. But this doesn't mean he doesn't live me as much or care, the fact is that he loves/cares more than before but in a different way...
Sorry no offense please...this is just my opinion an I am a woman too
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Husband changes hoping the wife will change too.
To a different wife.
But wives are so chipkoo. :(
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By the time, a woman realizes that she loves her spouse and can live the rest of her life with him, the man realizes that he doesn't love her spouse as he used to and can live the rest of his life without her. That materializes or not is another story.
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Most men stay the same , only the outlook of women changes because of the hormonal changes from month to month. 
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1st year of marriage - phone at my work desk rings at 4pm, its my lovely wife on the other side
'Jaldi sai ghar aa jaeen, aap ki pasand k dinner banaya hai'
me ' liken tum ko tu bukhar tha'
she ' tu kia howa, mujhey khud pata chal jata hai aap ka kia khaney ka dil ker raha hai. aab main kia aap k leyee itna bhi nahi ker sakti? itni mehnat kertey hain aap office main '
2rd year of marriage - phone at my work desk rings at 4pm, its my lovely wife on the other side
'ghar kab aa rahey hain, bare bhook lagh rahi hai. sabzi baniee hai. I know aap ko pasand nahi liken aap ki wajah sai main keyun sabzi khana choroon'
me ' liken....'
she 'hangs up'
3rd year of marriage - phone at my work desk rings at 4pm, its my lovely wife on the other side
'ghar aatey howey pizza lai aayee ga' and hangs up.
Coming next.
Phone at Decent Bahi's desk doesnt even ring anymore at 4 pm.
and
Decent bahi ka office sey ghar phoonch ker sabzi banana.
stay tuned.
Re: Why don't most of men remain the same...
A general question:
Why don't most of men remain the same as a marriage/relationship proceeds with time, as they are in the beginning?Why don't they remain as loving like they are in the beginning? As it's apparent from most of ladies' complaints, why does their interest tend to decline?
So men, what are the reasons?
Ladies, feel free to put in your thoughts.
This reminds me a joke, a girl was talking to her friend,
" Before marriage I loved every thing about him, and now I hate every thing. Lord, why men change so quickly"
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no matter what ppl say
its because the thrill is gone
A general question:
Why don't most of men remain the same as a marriage/relationship proceeds with time, as they are in the beginning?Why don't they remain as loving like they are in the beginning? As it's apparent from most of ladies' complaints, why does their interest tend to decline?
So men, what are the reasons?
Ladies, feel free to put in your thoughts.
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ager yee halat rahey tu phone at my desk will resume ringing at 4 but it will not be my lovely begum 
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Lol, agar app ki lovely begum ney app ki ye post parh li tu woh decent bahi hi nahi rahain gey jin ka 4 bajay phone baja kerta tha.
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Feel the same way, my bf as cool as we just start the relationship
Re: Why don't most of men remain the same...
A general question:
Why don't most of men remain the same as a marriage/relationship proceeds with time, as they are in the beginning?Why don't they remain as loving like they are in the beginning? As it's apparent from most of ladies' complaints, why does their interest tend to decline?
So men, what are the reasons?
Ladies, feel free to put in your thoughts.
You expect someone to go a lifetime without changing? Of course me change, their thoughts, feelings, desires, looks, etc. It all changes. It's the same with women.
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Every one changes men expect wife after marriage not girl friend and i think women expect boy friend kind of husband after marriage which i think is not possible. Wife can not be a girl friend and girl friend cant be a wife. I am still single so cant say much more about the issue :)
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^ you won't have much say when married, either.