Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

gracias bro..but Janwaar got it right when he said this...scroll up and read what he said this in reference to

anyhoo as I say, DIL and MIL are both women so let women sort out their messes :)

Re: Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

Good posts Jaanwar and X2.

For some reason some women (not all) don't like their MIL and MIL don't care for their DIL.

For some reason, a lot of men do care about their MIL and DIL.

Those reasons could be due to any of above but largely it is about men in general do not like to deal with household issues and those who do are rightly called above womanly men.

I think, women need to revisit the issue and not go in to marriage relation with any preconcieved ideas about in-laws.

Your own family and inlaws, is just a combined family and that is how it should be looked at.

Re: Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

Shokran habibies. I am just glad that the ones asking the question have answered it themselves. Their own kind at least.

Re: Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

i doubt any sane man who works 8-9 hours a day, and everyday has enough energy to maintain his senses rather stress about the ones who dont even concerns him much, such as his MIL.

men do have issues with their MIL when their MIL giving wrong advices to her daughter, and daughter actually following them.

Re: Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

beti ki ma or betay ki maa bohat ferq hota hai

jo strong position per ho ga gerber wohe keray ga

beti ki maa to bohat mazloom makhlooq hai ..hamray muashray main..damaad ko sir aankhoon per bithaya jata hai

us ko kuch bura na lag jaye ....beti ko samjhaya jata hay ..nahi aanay ki ijazat to lerna nahi

daamad nay choha bhi mara ho ro susraal say mubarakbaad ka phona aata hai

....

to kahan say koi issue banay ga ...

:lajawab:

  • Very few men are emotionally driven
  • Men most believe on forget anbd move on
  • Men dont have to deal with MIL that much and with that insity as women have to do

When was the last time a son-in-law was told his skin is looking a little too dark, his inlaws don't like what he's wearing, he shouldn't be spending evenings out with his friends or keep going out to work or that he should hand over his money and valuables to them for 'safe keeping'? Oh yeah, never :D