Why dont MEN have MIL issues?

Someone tell me why men dont have MIL issues? :hmmm:

Im just curious because it would be nice to see some men panicking here about making good impressions in front of their MILs and FILs.

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I did.

She kept her daughter away from me :(

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some men do ... but these are the same type who have a personality like a psycho bahu ... except they are the psycho damad.

very rare, but it happens.

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I think men panick too, they just dont talk about it much and dont sar pay sawaar kar :hehe:

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Reha Coz hamari AMMIYAN itni sweet hoti hain ke hamare hubby ko kabhi unse problem ho hi nahi sakti :wub:

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Ok one thing I have noticed that men are usually extra nice towards their in laws . I think its a great tactic to win their sympathies too plus of their own family as well . :wink:

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Maybe because a guy's MIL tends to be more reasonable, keeps out of his business, and is kinder towards her damaad because she knows that her daughters happiness is co-mingled with husbands. She doesn't want to do anything to upset him or push him away because that would indirectly be pushing her own daughter away. If the hubby doesn't want anything to do with the girl's parents.... then that means the girl has less contact with them.

Thats why I think guy's don't really have MIL issues... and that is also why they have a harder time understanding why girl's do.

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aur hubby hazrat konsa apni MILS k sath rehtay hain.:chai:

THIS IS THE REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL ANSWER

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if they do - they have sense to keep quiet.

paki MIL always suck up to their damads always like "beta this and beta that" - they don't have anything to complain about.

Parents of the girl are careful about treating their son-in-law and his family right....because they're afraid that if they anger him....he may take it out on their daughter....and hurt the marriage in some way. They feel like they're in a more vulnerable position. That's what I've noticed....greater hospitality shown for a son-in-law. More so than for a daughter-in-law. Could be that the in-laws are just nice people in general.......but I seem to sense a bit of fear.

^I think that plays a role. Also, it could be that men, in general, are not as emotional as women and don't pick apart and dwell on issues as frequently as women.

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no i think its cuz men are awesome like that ... let the hate begin

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Men just prefer to keep it to themselves .

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Statistically speaking, women are an entire standard deviation higher in neuroticism then men.

We HAVE to find stuff to be worried about - MILs is one of them.

YAY for being women!

This.

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Vhatever, I think its because men dont care.

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its because men are not dramaybaaz or have inferiority issues. most young girls are hollow shells filled with a zillion insecurities. and when she sees her MIL cook better, clean better, treat her husband better, she seethes and frothes over in primal rage.

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Men have plenty of inferiority complexes. They digest it and act out bit differently.

word.

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njgal, they are mostly about our wives and girlfriends. like, oh noes my frand got a better model : ((

but we deal with it by working out at the gym. there in lies the crux to the issue.