Why don't guys talk about their emotions?

I can only show you some e-moticons :snooty: :frowning: :crying: bas kaafi hai…

LK, what does it have to do with trust?

Re: Why don’t guys talk about their emotions?

No we dont become a emotional bag waiting to burst. Why cuz we are MEN :snooty: A mans got to do what a mans got to do.:smooth:

For Ladies Only

Studies show that male brain can not think like the female brain. Male brain is simple and less complex and thus simple and operational than the female brain which is more complex. Dependence on analytical and logical factors and restrain from over use of the “emotions” empowers men to deliver a feasible and optimum decision. Due to the simple decision making process and the male brain requires very little communication assistance.

Where as the female brain works in a much more different way than a male brain. Female brain is more “diversified” and hence can almost think in five different ways where as the male brain does not think of as many “diverse and versatile options”. Hence the female brain due to its “diverse” nature of complex “option gathering” skills at times counters more complex situations. Making it more time consuming and difficult for the women to approach a feasible and optimum solution.

Considering the above it becomes the necessity of the female brain to seek high level of assistance in the form of “communication” with others to approach a feasible and optimum decision.

For Guys Only

Studies show that the male brain can not think like the female brain. Male brain is relatively less confused if not confused then the confused female brain. Common sense and less emotional input helps in faster decisions. Lack of input of fears and insecurities and make the male brain decide faster.

Where as the female brain works in a much more different way than a male brain. Female brain can almost think in five different ways where as the male brain does not cater to so many confusing thoughts. Hence the female brain due to its confused nature encounters more difficulty. Making it more time consuming and difficult for women to make up their mind.

Considering the above it is must for the women to talk to make up their mind.

BTW did you notice most of the threads by women on GS it is not that they don’t know what to do. Its just that they are confused...

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LK, what does it have to do with trust?
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well u only share ur secrets and your hidden feelings to people you trust..that's why!

That is certainly not true. I trust quite a few people, but trust doesnt mean complete and utter trust. There are degrees of trust.

showing emotions is seen as a sign of weakness.
I understand it, I dont like to talk about my feelings either :D

Talking to others about feelings brings a relationship to a new level, but puts one in a more dangerous position aswell.

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That is certainly not true. I trust quite a few people, but trust doesnt mean complete and utter trust. There are degrees of trust.
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well you would divulge some info about how you're feelin to the most trusted no? that's what I'm sayin

Anyone read "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars"??? It might provide some clues!

There are two different things being discussed here.

In answer to your question cat....go and review the thread in General called Beauty in Simplicity by Maniac. The poor soul expressed himself and got shafted by a fellow man.

Sort of like women being their own worst enemy.

In answer to Mehnaz's question.....immature guys play games to mess with your head. It may not start off as an intention to mess with your head, but it ends up that way cuz they don't know when and where to draw the line.

sounds like my bro.. the amount of water he sheds when he parts with his fiance is ridiculous…

i think guys think that if they confide 100% in someone, they’ve lost the most important thing they own, their feelings.. they reckon that they can be blackmailed and so on (a guy friend told me about this.. except he confided in me :halo: baby.. tsk)

a lot of guys do bottle their emotions up.. but then on the other hand, they can cry like 2 yr old babies when something big happens.. first had experience