women worry about what to wear what to not wear at Wedding Walima etc etc etc than men? I don’t get it 
Or are us men just too seedhay saadhay who are happy with some Shalwar Kameez jootay instead of pulling our hair out about this dress or that dress
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Because it is the most important time in our life ad we want to look flawless, you don't get married three or four times, just once, inshallah. :)
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women have more choice than men. what is a guy gonna choose from: a sherwani or a suit, right? women have lehengas, ghararas, long shirts, short shirts, different sleeves/necklines/kaam styles, jewellery, hair, makeup etc. theres SO many more decisions to make! it can get stressful. as to why they care, its their wedding! you wouldn't want your wife to look like a bum that day of all days, would you? :p
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Shak, would you prefer she wear a garbage bag? 
Its her wedding, women love adorning themselves and this is the one time in their lives they can be as dressed up as they want AND get away with it!
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^ and NO ONE should take that away from her.
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Because men don't have too many things to choose from, because men are from Mars and women are from Venus....but it isn't like we don't care what the grooms look like...grooms too should care what they look like. It is also their big day.