Why do you have/want kids?

[Gujranwalay]

Re: Why do you have/want kids?

@redvelvet

Oh Hmmna, people will always "talk." If you're not married, they'll talk. If you get hitched, they'll talk. If you're childless they'll talk. If you're the content parent of one kid, they're ready to talk about your 2nd and 3rd pending installments. If you've a daughter, they'll talk about a pending son. We have to develop a dragon hide much earlier on in the game of life, waaaaay before marriage takes place, Lol.

+1, really hate everyone telling new couples to go and have kids. Or the suggestions to go get a checkup done.
People need to mind their own business

[Reha]

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I love kids but wasn’t planning on having them right away…at all. Of course, Allah swt had other plans

My reasons for having kids eventually was to simply see what all the hoopla is…what is it about them that makes people change completely? Forget themselves? So I guess some very romantic reasons that are about to come crashing down around me in a few months - or so everyone keeps making me believe

Also, what does a little me look like?

[Ghost14]

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It would be an evolutionary travesty, and a significant blow to the human gene pool if I didn't procreate. I'm a giver.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Naabigh

Needed some one to burn all my hard earned money :)

isnt begum enough for that?

[Sentry]

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@Southie

You have been informed multiple times chat always occurs at local time.

Local time is 24/7.

[Naabigh]

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@Decent_6Chora

isnt begum enough for that?

She is ethnically beharii - so you can imagine :D

[muqawwee123]

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to live my childhood again.

[Ethan_Hunt]

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Was it to save your marriage?

this will be the stupidest thing ever.

[Howzat_1]

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I just want to feel the love of parents for their kids, as they say 'you can't feel your parents love until and unless you will become mom/dad'.

[Hmmna]

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@Howzat

I just want to feel the love of parents for their kids, as they say 'you can't feel your parents love until and unless you will become mom/dad'.

Absolutely

[sweefs]

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@Ghost14

It would be an evolutionary travesty, and a significant blow to the human gene pool if I didn’t procreate. I’m a giver.

Wow really.. mods, i think you forgot to move this post to Jokes forum. Kthxbai.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Naabigh

She is ethnically beharii - so you can imagine :D

seems like my bihari is different than yours. Lucky you :D

[Sentry]

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@Ethan_Hunt

this will be the stupidest thing ever.

I've known someone to have a kid cause their marriage was on the rocks, thinking it'd save it and make them closer.

[Paheli00]

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@Sentry

I've known someone to have a kid cause their marriage was on the rocks, thinking it'd save it and make them closer.

Did it work? Assuming they're still married....did they stay married b/c they got closer OR b/c they felt trapped due to the kid?

[Ethan_Hunt]

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@Sentry

I've known someone to have a kid cause their marriage was on the rocks, thinking it'd save it and make them closer.

let me guess, a women, had a kid, filed for a divorce and took 100% of whatever he had. lawd.

[Sweetmoi]

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No kids. Not sure I am kids kind of person :/

[Deeba1234]

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@Paheli00

Did it work? Assuming they're still married....did they stay married b/c they got closer OR** b/c they felt trapped due to the kid?**

Bit in bold doesn't matter to some, does it.. Long as they're still married it can still technically be called a "success"

[Krypton]

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[Paheli00]

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Bit in bold doesn't matter to some, does it.. Long as they're still married it can still technically be called a "success"

True. Although how anyone can refer to bringing and raising a child in a unhappy home a "success" is beyond me but whatever.

[Sentry]

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@Paheli00

Did it work? Assuming they're still married....did they stay married b/c they got closer OR b/c they felt trapped due to the kid?

I'm not sure. She used to be in my class at uni. She told me her husband and her are not really on speaking terms anymore and he does his own thing and isn't showing much interest in her (even though they'd only been married like a year). She used to ask me to hangout in the evenings but I refused (it wasn't appropriate) and told her she needs to sit her husband down and have a chat about their future. About a week later after class she told me she had a chat with her husband and he told her he'll make more of an effort to be there for her and work on their marriage. She also said he thinks a kid would bring them closer together and was asking me what I thought. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea for various reasons.

I changed uni in the summer, I kept in touch with her on FB. She ended up having a boy. I deleted my FB shortly after that. It's been around 3yrs since I last spoke to her, so I have no idea how her marriage is going.