Why do women feel attracted to married men?

lol, thats like saying the divorce rate in pakistan is much lower than in USA.

Its not necessary that what you cannot see, doesnot exist

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Princess: “Islam main to waysay bi 4 ki permission hain.. ab woh baychara dosri shadi karna chahay yah un kuwari larkio say shadi karain jo kay old ho rahi hain.. TO yah to sawab ka kam howa na :cb:

This is such a rude & ignorant thing to say.

Sunset: As long as yr hubby doesn’t get too friendly with these girls/women & is not all smiley face it doesn’t matter I guess. Let the girls burn :slight_smile: On a serious note no offence to the married brothers but ewww! who would eye a married guy. I mean have some dignity. Not that checking out singles is alright either. I dun see how a married man can be more attractive. Its not a maid or a babysitter that comes with experience its a man. Just the thought is giving me the chills.

I am reading this post and realizing that “crap…i hope any of my married female friends don’t think i’m hitting on their husband!!” i always say salam to both the husband and wife, and sometimes i’m a little more relaxed with the hubby, not cuz i like him, but because i’m like “oh he’s married, and his wife is right next to him..”…with other guys you don’t know if they are hitting on you but with the person’s wife nearby i have the assurance that it’s not the case. ahhh now i’m going over all the times i met my old friends and hoping that their wives didn’t think anything weird!! i mean i could avoid their hubbies but usually they come over in pair so it’s not like i can be :smiley: with the wife and look over and suddenly turn :mad: at him. i would give the girls a benefit of a doubt. the only married men i sorta ‘awww’ at are guys like this: http://www.babyearth.com/images/10-0602-01l.jpg but i wouldn’t actually hit on them

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Ahh… I’ll be hated for replying. Sorry girls :slight_smile:

I think for various reasons. Here’s a quick glance at the mind set of some, why girls like to bat their lashes at married men *_+

For eg:

  • He’s married, so he’s not afraid of commitment. That’s kinds seskey!

-He’s taking responsibility and not afraid to spend the remaining of his life waking up to this same girl (well lets stick to the fairy-tale la de da’s of why the attraction occurs).

-He’s distict from the boys that are still single/divorced and playing around.

-married men also represent stability and send the message of ‘being settled’ :slight_smile:

-I can flirt with him being completley safe because he’s already taken and there’s no way of me sending dual messages and i won’t be blammed for messing around with his mind cuz he’s like my brother, but it gives me licence to be more daring :wink: ha ha…

-He must be a great fella and doing something right since his wife is still with him (hasn’t left him or none)

-or i can flirt around with him, practice and then move to the real deal when I’m ready hee haw…

just a few reasons…why girls feel attracted to married men… I think I must’ve read 'em somewhere winky dinky

I personally think if the wife finds this out, the hubby after teasing and flattering himself with the fact that oOOoh he’s still got it, should gang up on the girls and be totally affectionate and much devoted to each other’s presence next time infront of those girls. Plus or… he can flirt equally more insanly (after consulting with mrs. ofcourse and her consent in written that it won’t come back to bite him in his tail) and scare the daylites outta the flirty dirty girl. This works wonders honestly…
Its so fun to watch them wrinkle up their noses in spite. :cb:

Wow. U must hail from Utopia

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i hate those women that do this.

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Cause they want what they can't have. Something like this is going on in my family, my cousin got married to a girl in pakistan 2 years ago, they have a beautiful son together too, they led a normal healthy married likfe until he decided to have an affair with his mums cousin (who is 28, unmarried) and wants to kick out his present wife and marry her...his wife is the most amazing girl you will ever meet in your life and after everything shes gone through (no one the house talks to her, treat her like ****, insult her, never let her out the house, dont pick up/love her son, blame her for the rest fo the family turning against them etc) she is still ready to stay there just for her son.
It makes me sick to the bone that a man could do that to his own flesh and blood, and the girl he's having the affair with should just go and rot in hell!

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OMG:mad2: i pity that girl! wtf!

yeahh, i'd rather she went back home than rot away here

why do we always blame the girl,why shuld she care about the wife when husband is throwing himself on her not giving a **** about the women he s married to.

And it could be an intrinsic response.

Personally, I believe there is sexual connotation behind such response, again most likely intrinsic.

I may have a controversial answer. I think, a woman happy in marriage (or a relationship) equals sexually gratified woman, to many other women, especially unmarried (or unattached). That could be the basis of such responses, again not necessarily a premeditated response.

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Hmmm. nyaaaa they don't feel attracted they probably feel safe the same way they feel safe with gays :D though I think its a false sense of safety.

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^ stop bursting TLK’s bubbles! :hehe: