Why do often we love/like the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who love/like us?
Is that human nature? Or is it irony of life?
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Human nature. To run after the things we don't have, things that are harder to achieve!
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ignore the ones who love/like us?
Maybe because we take them for granted?
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When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken off :)
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When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken off :)
True, but we usually realize this when its too late :(
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Because we are sure of the affection of those who love us, and know that we don't have to make an effort to gain their love. Lakin for those who don't love us, we strive harder. It's the biggest irony of life. Just like we take our families for granted sometimes and don't make an effort to be nice towards them all the time (fighting with siblings etc.:) ) but with outsiders most of us are always civil and kind.
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tough nuts, hard to get things always attract...once they are in possession they lose value ! Sad but true
it's human nature. How many times have we seen a five year old kid bawl their eyes out on the brand new toy cars/planes etc on the shelves of toy shop and how quickly they break them and get bored of them when they finally get them for themselves
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*we fail miserably to learn to appreeciate what we have and the craze to run after the things we do NOT have...qinaa'at pasandii ham meN 'onqaa hai! *
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You want what you can't/don't have.....scarcity increases value, lol. But I do think that there are exceptions. For someone who is only interested in an ego boost....they may be more curious about you when you ignore them. For someone who doesn't care for an ego boost and is truly not interested in you....they may even feel relieved when you leave them alone. And sometimes the time apart from the object of your affection might make your realize that it wasn't a healthy relationship.....and you decide that you're not going to go after them anymore.
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there is actually a theory out about this. It’s called the Principle of Least Interest.
Read about it and honestly, it’s very, very, very interesting and VERY true.
It basically says that the person with the least emotional attachment has more power and control in the relationship. This can be any kind of relationship.
read this article to get a better understanding.
http://standardspeaker.com/the-principle-of-least-interest-1.1110652#axzz1X8kUVogM