Maybe im too westernisedin my thinking. But i do not like the fact that its women who are expected to get up and feed the man, make him breakfast etc i mean cant the lazy so and so do it himself...wil it break his back to get up and make his own cup of tea....why oh why is it like this especially in our culture....if wife gets up and asks her husband on a daily basis to make her breakfast, this wouldnt work.
Im getting married soon and im hating the fact that il be expected to run around him, even if hes a decent guy he will still expect breakfast/lunch/dinner on table.....why cant he bl***y do it himself....
wow! You better talk to him about this issue BEFORE you get married!
I am just speechless at your "thinking" behavior!
That is just a very negative attitude. Initially, in marriage we take everything for granted because we are MOST capable of doing EVERYTHING ourselves - which includes "providing" for yourself, buying luxury for yourself, independence etc.
We only learn what marriage **was **after we have spent at least 10 years with our partner.
Past 10 years of my marriage has thought me A LOT. While I am still capable of "providing" for myself, buying luxuries, and everything I wish for - I think I would still be INCOMPLETE without doing MY HOMELY DUTIES. Homely chores, cooking, looking after hubby's diet needs all are part of OUR responsibility as a wife.
Don't shy away from your obligations, because you know something? OUR partner will NEVER shy away from their OBLIGATIONS in supporting us in every way and GIVING US A VERY MUCH RESPECTABLE LIFE at the same time.
P.S: You just made my heart cry with that thought! Get with it girl! I have never skipped making breakfast for my hubby. It just starts our day that much BETTER.