Re: Why do us women have to do all the cooking?
Why don't you discuss with your fiancee, communicate. Tell him your expectations. Has he told you he "expects" you to do everything and not help you at all. I am sure if you discuss with him, that you would appreciate him to help you whenever possible, he won't mind and will gladly help out. Please talk to him BEFORE marriage of how you feel, what you expect...etc.....so there are no surprises. Is this arranged marriage? I think in some thread you said he is your cousin? Then you should know him and be able to talk to him openly right?