Why do us women have to do all the cooking?

Aimee · April 2, 2009, 12:46pm

wow! You better talk to him about this issue BEFORE you get married!

I am just speechless at your “thinking” behavior!

That is just a very negative attitude. Initially, in marriage we take everything for granted because we are MOST capable of doing EVERYTHING ourselves - which includes “providing” for yourself, buying luxury for yourself, independence etc.

We only learn what marriage **was **after we have spent at least 10 years with our partner.

Past 10 years of my marriage has thought me A LOT. While I am still capable of “providing” for myself, buying luxuries, and everything I wish for - I think I would still be INCOMPLETE without doing MY HOMELY DUTIES. Homely chores, cooking, looking after hubby’s diet needs all are part of OUR responsibility as a wife.

Don’t shy away from your obligations, because you know something? OUR partner will NEVER shy away from their OBLIGATIONS in supporting us in every way and GIVING US A VERY MUCH RESPECTABLE LIFE at the same time.

P.S: You just made my heart cry with that thought! Get with it girl! I have never skipped making breakfast for my hubby. It just starts our day that much BETTER.

Very very well said NJmasti … I have a feeling too that nadz may not be ready for marriage yet …