Why do some sisters prefer not to live with in-laws?

[AnGeL_EyEs]

Re: Why do some sisters prefer not to live with in-laws?

@Mrs.Shikra

i totally agree with Angel Eyes…its really hard to live with in laws when you r the only when compromising…both parties have to understand each other…mostly its DIL who changes herself but there a limit to that…and yeah privacy is a huge issue in a joint family…my own MIL gets worried if i am in my room for long…she always comes to my room and ask me why are your room? i mean thats sweet of her but just sometimes you want your space

i mean before getting married a girl lives with her parents knowing that she will leave them soon…so u doo everything according to ur mothers rules …after getting married you have to listen t ur MIL…live in her house with her rules…a girl needs her own house with her own rules…i think thats not alot to ask:bummer:

^well said…

many girls including myself… feel this way. Sometimes I even get excited thinking about having my own home, with my own things…and it’s kinda like having your dreams shattered when you have to abide by someone else’s rules AFTER marriage and you have to buy things for the home with permission and/or consultation.

A girl must never feel like a grown adult living like this

With that said…there are always exceptions to the rule…really depends on the individual girl and if she wants that kind of independence.