I am scared of falling in love withsomeone, i just don get the reason why do ppl fall in love, recently my friend broke out with her lover and he was acting like as if someone has stab a knife in his heart..SEriously he was abt to commit suicide..Thankfully he has calmed down a bit now but still he is in depression all day which kinda sucks…So why do you love when 90% of love stories gonna end in sucha venemous hurting way…
anyways I believe in lust though:)
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Because they are bungholes! In my opinion love and lust are over rated and almost always lead to depression. But human race is weak in the matters of the heart and thus gives into those physcial and social desires. Side note: I'd prefer love and ultimately love-depression over lust and its end result.
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not 90%...lol...if you are a man you have to first and foremost worry about being established and having enough money..everything else just follows,lust and love...especially lust
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i'm a pessimist i don't believe true love exists...altho i'd like it to!
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love is love.. as with anything it can bring happiness or take happiness away.. you have literally very low control over it... think of the love that your mom has for you.. no matter what you do she will be there to hold you ... that's love no other definition can explain it better..
lust is different.. lust is there when a child looks at a candy and just wants to have it coz it looks and tastes good -- doesn't necessarily mean that kid likes that candy.. its just a shiny wrapper that is attracting the kid..
i should stop reading psycology books and stick to programming sigh
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too bad for you,lust also leads to love n vice versa.
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^^ agreed…
true love exist…but i know it’s rare…many people never find it
cause true love can only exist within a heart that is able to give wthout expecting
a heart that can trust, a heart that can feel for others without egoitical desires…
if you are more individualistic than forgiving and caregiver…chances are lower to find true love
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i want both .. love and lust :p
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Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
- Khalil Gibran
If you do fall in love, don't question it, go with the flow.
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Don’t worry about love when you are rich for love will follow you like a geek to a keypad. Love is a poor man’s version of lust.
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love is soooo over-rated!!!!!
my advice.... if ur happy as u are, then dun bother go looking for love.
now lust is something u hav to handle very smartly.... specially if ur a man :D i've seen men getting into really deep **** cuz they let something else other than their brains to do da thinking :D
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dere is no such thing as "true" love..
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love and lust are not that disconnected..lust is often an expression of love..don't think its all that bad..when u love someone u wanna get near them and engage physically,cause you want the emotional intenisty thats builds up inside you to be expressed and find its shore.
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wow desidudecool, when did you learn to talk sense ??
jokes aside, i think ur right about the love lust connection.
my personal viewpoint is that being with a life companion is definitely worth the shot cos u got one life and 'tis always better off to have tried everything in life atleast once.
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Its one of those things, once you are init you just see the things from the new-found perspective... it can ruin n take over your life or it can make your life ..for me its been the latter.
and i don't believe in love is blind theory, you do see faults in the other person but Allah (swt) has put so much mercy that they(faults) don't mean much.