Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?

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Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?

@Core2

I have seen this general observation of men in Pakistan. They just don’t understand women and take a wife for granted. This isn’t always true but is most of the time.
Where else in the world besides Pakistan is it seen as unmanly to do the housework? To help ur wife around?
And all Pakistani women I know agree on this point.
A few days ago my brother and his family went to a party at his family friend’s house. There were people of several (Muslim) nationalities there and my brother told me when men started discussing their wives, all the Pakistani men started criticizing their wives whereas the Iranians and Turks and even Arabs and Afghans (not pashtuns) were praising their wives.

Why is it like this?
And is it just me or has anyone noticed that when Pakistani men marry goris they treat them way better than how he would have if he was to have married someone from back home? I have seen this behaviour in my ex-husband as well (and before any Pakistani man tries to link my divorce to my attitudes to Pakistani men, I’d just like to say that he had an affair with his white gf b4 he divorced me).

I agree with u about pakistani men (as i am one).

But.. there is another side to it ,speaking from experiance (living abroad ,divorced).
Pakistani girls relatively speaking are high mantinace and have a big ego.Gori gals are humble ,more understanding ,give guy space, dont mutter to them self and dont bother about"log kay khahen gay- what will ppl say". its easer to be yourself with a gori she wont judge u ,wont try to change you or be controling,Its easier to be friends.

In a pakistan man/wowen relationship there is struggle for power.

And yes my attitudes to Pakistani women has to do with my experiance.

By no means i condole pakistani men behavior towards pakistani women