Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
no gwachi hui ainak...gwacha hua wallet etc etc.. :D
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
who saoid men only need to be taken care of .
women even deserve attention all the times :p
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
thats why it is said, "there is woman behind every successful man" ... as for as the theme presented by Nisa, it is just an angle ... the complete pic is different. If we analyze the whole life of wife/husband, we see that sometime wife need to be care of and sometime a man need to be. It depends upon the situation, role played, and level & nature of responsibility(s). We can say .. both are weak and both are strong. In line with the words that you see in the start of my post :P "a female is more powerful" than a man
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
.. erroneously i clicked the submit tab ...
a man is dependent emotionally and a female is dependent on a man in respect of certain financial, physical, and/or environmental factors.
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
men need care - more than physical - they need psychological care.
affairs are not what is important – taking physical advantage is not what some people are after, and some people know it, people also do not allow doing so and that is their right.
there can be no explanation for certain things, except between the two people.
blaming anything or anyone is not important - ultimately it is the action of each woman and a man, individually and also if someone never came close, legally - how does he know, what he could have had.
that is why Allah made the marital contract and its proposal so sacred, at least to my mind and that is why i am disappointed as why it is so easy for people to try out people.
it is not important to marry for the sake of marrying -
but with someone one can truly admire and feel protected with - it goes for both women and men.
men need just as much protection by strong women's presence – dynamic stabilization of an even handed activation of two way understanding and pact, whoever violates this formula, is no good unless the correction is made and owned up.
romantics do not last - we all know this, if a practical marriage was being planned, something that stopped it from being, must have been an error – objectively speaking, how can it be that you fully intend and express that intent for something and then you walk out on it?
that is why whenever you even go into artificial atmospheres of the temporary 'looseness', people who had got a head, will never ever feel satisfied.
if anything they will be repelled.
Allah gives dukh to those he loves, i think, some one told me when i was trying to make sense of him and why he vanished.
what if, if someone wants to ends up with trash and you are doing all you can to prevent that from happening
it is not important to have the most beautiful or the most handsome woman or man - they attraction lies in the two - who may not be main stream out standing.
each individual has her or his own choice.
and the problem is the unpredictable change
physical intimacy is not fulfilling for men, even, when they do not know the character of the person.
and in doing so, they actually lose a good life.
it is not important to make sense of the vices, when virtues are the focus.
resilience is necessary other wise even those who are not bad in character will fail themselves.
this is why CARE ought to always be present - for both women and for men towards each other, once they get married and especially before they plan to get married together.
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
a man is dependent emotionally and a female is dependent on a man in respect of certain financial, physical, and/or environmental factors.
i agree with you :)
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
nisa_ak you took too long to come out of cave :)
Men and Women depends on each other for many reasons including emotional, physical, financial and other!
Re: why do men need to be taken care of?
First his mom takes care of him.
then 25-30 years later she tells his wife, take good care of my son.
seriously, do men really need to be taken care of that much? like they need someone mom/wife to steer them in the proper direction all their life? they need mom/wife to "psycho" them to make them understand wats good for them? they need mom/wife to prepare their meals/clothes etc so they feel loved? u know this whole thing makes me think that men will go astray in the worst possible ways if moms/wives fail to "take care" of them. honestly!!!!! men in reality are THAT weak????? All ye gud ppl of GS, Plzz enlighten me!
PS: THIS IS NOT A MALE BASHING THREAD.
What confuses me is that despite all this, they still feel that they are stronger than women.