Re: Why do men freak out when women say “lets discuss it”?
know what, sir, you are truthful(or straight forward, I must say) to a painful extent.
And whats this about "I have been trying very hard to rid myself (somewhat unsuccessfully) of attachments to the dunya … this is my goal and I treat every attempt that she has to get me angry as part of my test … "
To be very honest, honesty like this sounds very discouraging. I will have to salute your wife if she doesnt get discouraged by such comments.
Islam doesnt want you to be taarik Uddunya and give up on the world and worldly affairs. On the other hand, as I was told from our professor of Islamiat, the first question ever be asked from every husband, by Allah, will be about his wife. So you have to be concerned with all flesh and blood, sir.