The reason why alot of guys from america marry pakistani girls is because many american born desi girls don’t agree to marriage for a long time. I have seen this happen. So many of my cousins have this problem. I tried hooking up my cousin with so many other desi girls who weren’t even THAT young like around 25-29 and they were just not ready to get married. In the end he had no choice and settled down with a girl from pakistan. My fiances younger brother had to do the same thing. He came across alot of girls but they all wanted to date first and get to know him and then decide on marriage. He didn’t want to waste his time and just get into marriage right away because he wanted to start a family soon so he married a girl from pakistan.
And american girls usually know alot about financial stuff so they make sure the guy is earning a certain amount. Most of these guys send rishta to very middle class not so educated pakistani girls who don’t realy know so much about salary so thats never an issue. They are just glad they are getting married and financial status doesn’t matter that much because for them just moving to america means alot. (im not talking about rich pakistani girls, i m talking about middle class girls who aren’t so career oriented themsleves and don’t really interfere with parents decision)
Im not speaking for all desi american girls, Im talkning about my own personal experience