Marriages fail because respect and friendship is lost…If you respect your spouse and treat him/her like a best friend…everything else should go smoothly…
Interesting question! Muzna ji, please do shed some of your wisdom walay pearls on this thread ..although here goes my 2 rupees worth … han yaad aya, wo Hayaa kahan hai, aray gupiyoN us ko bhi idhar ki khas invitation dai daina. I’ll try to jhank marofy here again for her reply 
Okay why it tends to fail… because I think when two ppl in the begining meet each other, and fall for one another, will do anything to be together. (this reply disconcerns candidates of arranged marriages) In the begining the appreciation of being close is alright shoro shoro mie. But as time ticks away they start taking one another for granted. They forget the strugles or the obstacles they’ve over come for one another just to be together. Once they forget the real value of each other, things tumble down, and then its not a smooth ride. Plus one more thing, yay larkay ki maaN all of a sudden bari hell bent ho jatiN hain to make her bahoo’s life as miz-ra-bull as possible. !@(#)@ kahin ki 
sniff Yay waisay aj kal apni desi friends ki yahi ram kahani hie, specially those that have to cope with nat aAnly the sartaj bat also his madr-i-jan (word for -mom- in persian). Sigh! Acha yar ajkal db is a bit on the bitter end of the scale about this hushbunt and waife relationships cuz I’m not seeing any friends being happy. Either most are divorced after the first second yr of marriage, either they’ve separated, or either they are out of place and out of sync with the entire concept which a married couple should have with one another. My advice to ya all… “Shadi na karna warna bachtaOo gay sari life” Unless ofcourse Allah mian drops someone like an “Anokha dulha bhai”" from heavens who keeps our M.Baji happy. (Am I right Muzna, ya phir…!!! :Ankhain dekhanay wala icon for dulha bhai:
jati hon ab…Adios!
^Iqra bhabhi?
U talking to me? If yes, NOpes! Guess again :p
Please hud hi bata do, mere pait meiN dard ho raha hai :o
I wish you were her though :o
Sabah, not fair. Mie bhi bari dooooor say ayi hoN or bari daair say ayi hon. Wat kinda welcom is dat yar? 
Wevy wude Sabah Wevy Wude 
acha drink mint tea, eat Tums, or milk of magnesia (sp?) to get better.
Take care!
Daysee Behna
Welcome back :) Really missed you a lot. Now get GFQ back too, balke sabhi poorane log wapis aa jao :o
KahaN theiN?
GFQ who???? Should I laf my head off at you or at my own self Sabah. For the past 3,4 years I'm not on one continent. I'm covering millions of air miles every moment God decides to send me on missions from one country to another. Ppl tell me enjoy life as it is. But damn have I been so tired of extensive travelling.
Mie kahan hon, kahan gai, kahan rahi, yay tuo bhai raz ki bath hie... btw pait theek howa? agr nahi tuo ulti so jaO, theek ho jaO gi :)
ps. Han Roman nay ike bar poocha tha, kay "db tum graduate ho gai?" Tuo meri taraf say us ko kehna kay nahi, laykin phd world travelling mei kar li hie magar travelling khatum nahi howi" :-)
See I saw DB nick the other day and I was thinking Daysee Behna.
My sixth sense still works but why have you started writing like Iqra Bhabi?
because staying too close to desi ducks makes one quack like one :p Not that I'm calling Iqra bhabi one :) Btw, where is she herself these days?