Why do husbands act different in presence of their family?

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Re: Why do husbands act different in presence of their family?

@bella88

what i meant as coward and spineless are those men that don’t exactly stand up for their wives infront of their families. i am not talking about holding hands. but there are plenty of men out there that don’t stand up for their wives even when his family says something rude to her or about her. this has happend with me in my previous relationship so i can very well relate to this.
I have even seen when a guy is too nice to his wife and helps her out, he gets labelled ‘joru ka ghulam’ by his family.
so no it’s not laughable when someone is called spineless and coward for not standing up for his wife infront of this family.
If the OP is talking about holding hands or intimacy related behavior, then i am afraid i misunderstood the post.

the post is about how husbands conduct themselves and behave with their wives in presence of their families.
whether a husband takes a stand for his wive or not is a different issue altogether.
Btw, if women want their husbands to stand up for them in front of their families then they should equally be open towards husband standing up for his mom or sister or father in front of the wife when wife is in the wrong. unfortunately, most women have double standards and would take that as a great insult if a husbands points wife’s inappropriate behavior etc in front of his family.