Re: Why do half the girls only have one mission in life? Get married.
The difference between u and them is that ur still expected to have a life and they realize u are a person with ur own goals and likes dislikes etc...and not just some clay to be molded into doing exactly what they want. I don't know how common your situation is, but the other situation (where families want very young girls cz they're easier to "mold") seems to be alot more common here and there. Even though it might sound weird or bad to us, if they're happy with that arrangement...who r we to say anything?
wow i never thought of the mold situation but thats very truee.. i must say its very weird and sad to say that ppl expect thigns like that.
i love my in laws cuz there understanding and most of all their sensitive towards me in a way like i AM their daughter
but i bet sum ppl think i ambeing "molded"
but then again ppl talk smak regardless they mean very little to me hehehhe
good point sarah jee