I am aware :) I blv they've repented for it in the eyes of Allah swt and truly want to move on without causing any issues with the spouse. A guy's views usually changes..no matter how liberal he may be.
Re: Why do girls lie about having had boyfriends ?
I guess boys and girls BOTH need to more mature about the issue.
Girls need to look into guys eyes and tell about it.
Boys don't need to hair it, but they could appreciate her being honest.
After all its about the future not the past.
My wife will be allowed to miss her Ex any time she wants. Or any time I act like jerk to her.
Re: Why do girls lie about having had boyfriends ?
it all depends on the mindset. frnkly speaking, the ones who do so, stay better for this is the game of the day. at least they r far better than those who spend their life piously believing that they will get the reward in future but get the opposite in return. so it is better to b a guilt-monger if u they want to stay contented. although, a lot will say that this is not the rite way. let me tell u, i have myself seen such girls wid husbands after them at their beck n call so,as not to let them go as ever1 knows it is a contageous disease.
Re: Why do girls lie about having had boyfriends ?
I think girls do get sweet talked into having sex. Im sure there are cases where that isnt true also.
Girls tend to be more emotional and think with their hearts. If a guy starts to pay attention to them even a little, its amazing! They get ideas and start to think they're in love and whatnot. Some men take advantage of that (some dont know the girl is taking them that seriously) and continue a farce of a relationship and love. Girls get swept up into the "if you love me, you will do this for me" reasoning so easily and end up making mistakes they will regret for the rest of their lives.
No, not all girls are like that but a good percentage are.
Re: Why do girls lie about having had boyfriends ?
Girls will have sex before marriage
and guys will turn around and do the double standards.
we get it now
can we move on?
