i cant be more specific about my point now. cuz i always talk in a bit codes and bit khula andaz, agar aap ko samajh aa jaye then :k: for u, agar nahi to aa jaye gi!! ![]()
just let me know how long has it been since u moved here?
What is falling is love??? Well, I've only been in love/have loved once. In my view, love is when you experience this hedonistic rush for someone which fills you up 24/7 for days, weeks, months, and years on end. To me, it can mean love at first sight as well because I DO believe in love at first sight as it happened to me at age 20. To this day, I will never forget my first love (at age 20 like I said) and oddly enough even though I was in a relationship with the guy for a little over a year, he is my standard/yardstick that, to this day, I measure every other guy by. Whether this is fair or not (don't know...ummm...probably not!) I do subconsciously do this sometimes.
Love is a beautiful thing. You must love and be loved at least once in your life :)
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What is falling is love??? Well, I've only been in love/have loved once. In my view, love is when you experience this hedonistic rush for someone which fills you up 24/7 for days, weeks, months, and years on end. To me, it can mean love at first sight as well because I DO believe in love at first sight as it happened to me at age 20. To this day, I will never forget my first love (at age 20 like I said) and oddly enough even though I was in a relationship with the guy for a little over a year, he is my standard/yardstick that, to this day, I measure every other guy by. Whether this is fair or not (don't know...ummm...probably not!) I do subconsciously do this sometimes.
Love is a beautiful thing. You must love and be loved at least once in your life :)
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Thanks for replying Moona, just one question that comes to my mind after reading your reply... Is it ok for someone to fall in love two or three times with different ppl. (not at the same time)?
Des, I really didn’t get it… I guess I need to increase my processor and RAM.
Well I am here in North America for more than 15-16 years now, why?
Dear Salman,
Yup, it is absolutely ok to fall in love more than once in your life! It is natural, but of course. That is why people say that everyone has more than one perfect soulmate out there. This also explains why people end up falling in love with other people after a tragedy such as death of a spouse, or divorce. In my opinion, love knows no bounds and how/when/where/why one falls in love is quite uncontrollable. It either happens or it doesn't. Hope that helps!
Mona:)
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Why do do we fall in love <<<
Any clue why?
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We don't fall in love.. Love falls on us..
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"We dont fall in luv, it just happenes ".’
arahi he samhaj me pyar hone ke lie zeroory nahi ke aap apni merzi se kero khud bhi ho sakta he ![]()
btw ur main Q was y do we luv i think i gave u ur ans ritte :cinfuse:
What do you think what love is for you?
well the nas is u need somebody in ur life ke jiske lie aap zinda rahen woh apke saath hoga to apko kabhi akele pan yeh kabhi is baat ki fiker nahi rahegi ke tht no body cares abt u plus u share ALOT of things with her/him.![]()
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Dear Salman,
Yup, it is absolutely ok to fall in love more than once in your life! It is natural, but of course. That is why people say that everyone has more than one perfect soulmate out there. This also explains why people end up falling in love with other people after a tragedy such as death of a spouse, or divorce. In my opinion, love knows no bounds and how/when/where/why one falls in love is quite uncontrollable. It either happens or it doesn't. Hope that helps!
Mona:)
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Thanks for replying back moona, so if you love someone else one after another then its ok but what would you call your feelings for the other folks then? Let me put it in this way you started loving person #1 and the relationship grew after time, tragedy occurred and that person is no longer in your life. Now you fell in love with person#2. How would you describe or name your feelings for the person#1 now????
Salman, there is no clear-cut way to answer that question. The best way I can say it is that you loved person #1 in a slightly different way than person #2, etc. Also, keep in mind that “love” is not “like,” and “love” is not a momentary obsession/infactuation. Also, there are different types of love. Romantic love differs from love for one’s parents/siblings/children/pets/material posessions, etc.
As far as our present topic of romantic love, look, even I hope to experience this feeling again sometime soon with someone special. I am 28 and the last time I was in love was 8 years ago. I soooo want to experience that feeling again. I must be the most romantic person on the face of this earth! That’s how Leo women tend to be for the most part. Mera Prince Charming on a whit horse kahan hai???!!! ![]()
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"We dont fall in luv, it just happenes ".'
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The suddeness it made the term falling in love otherwise, if we could choose then it would be more like jumping into love.
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this is foul. i said it already ![]()
coz we're stupid
Pyaar, ishq, aur mohabbat to insaan keliye Allah miyan ki taraf se tofey hain. Isi liye to Allah miyan ne hamare seeney mein dil dala hai :love:
goood question… laykin mujhay samajh nahi aa raha k jawaab kaysay doon… ![]()
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well what can i say........................!
i think,
"love is a kind of spell bound attraction towards life,towards someone that u always need him/her on ur side,simply its an attraction towards....................!
speechless!
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go get hurt :D