Why do desis that grew up in Pakistan and India....

[indopak]

Re: Why do desis that grew up in Pakistan and India…

@Sara516

Well now i think about it.

i hate to admit it

but i used to badmouth em.

Even if htey’re more on the conservative and traditional side, they’re very sweet people and have only ever treated me and my mom and family w/ respect. I cringe at all the times i acted like such a moron and nobody stopped me. :hinna: These are my moms relatives. However, THEIR relatives and acquaintances and neighbors etc, they’re fair game

I guess it depends on whether we have somebody to stop us or advise us on how to treat or act. I had uncles and aunts visiting from india all the time ever since I was tiny so I guess I had some connection and affection for desis from back home from the beginning.