Why did/will you get married?

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She bought shoes with all those $$$$$$$$$ and will be hurling them at you!

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^ Thanks for giving her ideas :mad:

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It’s what I’m all about…ideas!

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Oya flooders . . . bus karo :ASA:

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:konfused:…Im still waiting for my Prada buddy…:asa:

:lifey:

hurling a shoe

Aight mista…:bummer:

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  1. to get settled ... i see marriage as a big part of settling down in life
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:lifey: That’s exactly how I feel. Getting married is hardly a priority, but if the right guy comes along maybe I’ll consider it.

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No gold-diggers here, good to see

:hmmm:

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  1. I will marry only if I find the girl of my dreams :wub:
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^ Same

I'll only marry when a) I get a job and b) I like someone

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when the right guy comes:blush:

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Why, not when.

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opps ok.

To hv a lovely settled life:blush:

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  1. because the idea of being permanently with him made me feel happy, fulfilled, and secure.

its the same reason people bring any change into their lives: whether its buying a bigger house, getting higher education, or having a baby...no?

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maybe for the baby:hmmm:
and maybe known as a divorcee(afetr the divorce) coz i’ve heard they’re regarded by some ppl to be really sensible:hmmm:, some ppl tend to have little respect for bachelors and spinsters, i mean they see them as having ‘thori si samaj’:vivo:

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To all those who said they would marry for love (Deeba1234, maroush, GlamDoll, Marwah, redvelvet, HNK, NiceUsman, Shak09, Little Princess)

Does being single prevent you from being in love? Does marriage (legal contractual marriage, not just cohabitation) make it easier to be in love?

To all those that said they would marry to settle down (libranrulz, Little Princess, pkgrl000)

Does being single prevent you from having a 'settled' (safe, smooth) life.

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Being single doesn't prevent you from being in love, infact you're more likely to fall in love if you're single. In our religion/culture, marriage is the only way to be with the person you love, that's why many resort to it..and legal contractual marriage certifies your commitment to the other person.

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^i think what they meant is if they have already fallen in love then they'd get married to tht person so that they can be with the person tehy love

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Definitely not staying single all my life. I will get married as soon as i feel connected to a girl.

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Precisely the point I was trying to drive towards. Love may be the impetus to start a relationship, but for desis, it's religion/social expectations that necessitate marriage.

People don't get married for love, people in love get married for things that marriage brings to the table, like social/religious approval.