Far away........like really far away? Really really really really far away? Beyond reach far away? Like up in the sky with a dragon?
As Ali Hujwiri said, "The Path of the fakirs are always burdened with desires, even in solitary the mind is not pure and thus cannot subvert desires, It is not in our control to diminish our innate desires, for i desire God and if i eliminate that then my soul will have no purpose." By this he means that sufis are humans too and some times we feel a need to be kissed and :) lol