I’ve seen men and women chase…sometimes it pans out and sometimes it doesn’t.
I don’t consider rejection personal or bad because not everyone is intended for everyone. Plus, you don’t approach just any joe shmo…just the kind of person who looks like they can handle it. I’ve not men a lot of guys who are that grounded though to be honest. Meaning, you say “HI” and their antenna starts bleeping “OMAGAWD, SHE WANTS MEEEEE”. Approaching is just finding out if you’ve got potential…nothing more. Consider it wandering around the cosmetics counters at a department store…stopping to look does not mean you’re whipping your credit card out.
If you like someone, find out if your choice is worth liking…that’s how I see it.
^I would think that the other person being too eager to the point of feeling hunted would be a turn off. In all fairness though, some men are rather thick and don’t pick up on subtle hints, making the “hunting” necessary.
*waiting for BombShellBabe to come and derail this thread to the point of no return. This will turn into another BombShellBabe-being-too-hot-to-resist thread.
Yes, I told him I was falling for him. To this day, I have not met another guy like him. He is very different and I am so glad I got to him first. I work mostly with men and I have interacted with enough men to know that his personality shines through. When I met him, I knew he had everything I wanted in a guy so why wait.
You must think outside the box to understand why it doesnt happen that often.
Cultural expectations, need to play mind games, etc are not the main reasons why women dont approach men as often as vice versa.
Losers are men who cannot attract women easily
If a guy can make a woman or two fall in love with him he’s certainly not a loser. So your choice of the label ‘loser’ doesnt make sense.
Because then the mullah brigade comes after you and you get to hear sheikh lectures scolding you about talking to the opposite sex and mocking the idea of “love”, and people poo poo on you and assume you’re having sex with the guy because that’s what obviously happens when you let someone know how you feel about them.
Just take a look at some other threads here to get an idea of the mindset.
^ so true
