Re: Why can’t you women
See that’s the thing. I did ask a man I respected out just for coffee a few weeks back and he was desi but for some reason just because i made the first move and asked him to hang out, he assumed I was all ready for “fun”. he turned into a human octopus. Like now instead of remembering him by his name, the words scumsuckingpigface come to mind. After that little scary, screwed up experience of me making a dash for my car, I realized that some desi men do see “let’s have coffee and hang out, get to know each other” as “let’s get it on”. Somehow I got screwed in the translation of what I was saying to what he really heard. I was dressed overly conservative where my skin was not showing in the least but how did he assume such things. Really he should change his name to scumsuckingpigface.
So now I ask how can I tell a douchebag like him, whom I respected quite a bit, from one that is actually and truly decent. I really don’t want to make the first move after that little trip to slimyland.
This response kind of goes for Coughcough too.