How would you measure with certainty that it's the "vast majority"? You saw 3 that were hitting on your husband. Your husband saw 2 in the shop. The shopkeeper could be seeing the SAME girls come to his store regularly OR the could very well be a different group of girls each time. There may be some desi girls who dress liberally but don't engage in such behavior. Some may have had premarital relations (not justifying it)..........but not in the sense that they sleep with just any random person, just so they can get material things.
ive seen millions ....throughout school and uni....then youth clubs and scouts ive been part of.... and now see many in my job....have been told by lots of other people of them seeing them too.....its a well known fact that theres so many of them around...
and to the OP: The girls you’re talking about are a very small minority. I think the only reason you’re worried is not out of some sense of goodwill to make society a better place but because they’re hitting on your husband.
my husband is the one who told me to discuss it with you …since you’re all pakistanis too but seems like you’re not bothered. its useless discussing it with you people…i was concerned about the next generation of pakistanis…but if you lot are not concerned i can try to save my own generation but cant say the same about yours…
my husband is the one who told me to discuss it with you ...since you're all pakistanis too but seems like you're not bothered. its useless discussing it with you people...i was concerned about the next generation of pakistanis....but if you lot are not concerned i can try to save my own generation but cant say the same about yours...
O chado jee. Achchay buray loug har jaga hotay hain, its not specif to any generation or any nationality.
ok guys theres no point discussing it with you lot....
Gupshup is not the same as it used to be back in the days (in terms of members and moderators and maturity)....i think it was a waste of time me coming here....you can close the topic now :)
my husband is the one who told me to discuss it with you ...since you're all pakistanis too but seems like you're not bothered. its useless discussing it with you people...i was concerned about the next generation of pakistanis....but if you lot are not concerned i can try to save my own generation but cant say the same about yours...
How are you going to save your own generation, LFP? That's what I asked you in my last post and you didn't answer it. The most you can do is vent in this thread/forum right? To actually DO something positive...........you'll have to be more "active" than just turning up your nose at them and calling them "prostitutes." You'll have to try and understand the psyche and the reasons behind why they stoop to such low behavior. The posters here are from different places around the world. If you're concerned about the plight of British Asian women.....then it would be more effective to work with OTHER desis in your local area to help better this issue. Maybe you can start an organization...get the masjid involved.......work with counselors......I dunno.
What they're doing is wrong......but looking down at them....getting together with the aunties/uncles and talking about "Hai Allah...I saw this desi girl doing bla bla bla"........how is that actually "helping" your generation? If you argue that it's increasing awareness.......then according to you ......people are already aware of it.
Well this is a tad ridiculous to say the least, the same can be said for girls AND boys from any other country and that's INCLUDING Pakistan.
I was there...he didnt even look at them...if you read the post...they were behind him...
its useless discussing this topic....because you people are so adamant on defending these prostitutes!....
How can you call them prostitutes? Did the shop keeper sleep with them in return for food? Do you have proof? Did you ever think he might not have been tellign the truth?
im not saying all the girls are like that....maybe you misunderstood....but the vast majority are unfortunately.
Vast majority? Really? I've lived in Britain all my life and would be willing to bet my life savings on the fact that the 'vast majority' of 'british asian grils' are not 'prostitutes'.
if this is how these girls and their parents are then no wonder they are the way they are....
So you're saying the parents are encouraging this behaviour?
If so... things haven't changed. He's still impresses with his intelligence and wit.
I cant remember peoples EXACT names as its been a long time ago....but alot of them left GS for the same reason .....that things were not the same anymore....
anyway....im going now....have to go work in the morning....
yeah when its people like you then its not an issue…its a joke…and i dont have time for jokes…its better to discuss it with real people rather than virtual words!..byyyyyyyeeee
yeah when its people like you then its not an issue...its a joke....and i dont have time for jokes....its better to discuss it with real people rather than virtual words!....byyyyyyyeeee
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I actually even gave proactive suggestions as to how you can deal with the issue.....and asked how YOU'd go about combating the problem....I asked twice...you never responded. Bad Pakistani!!!!
I cant remember peoples EXACT names as its been a long time ago....but alot of them left GS for the same reason .....that things were not the same anymore....
What did these old posters not have a functioning sense of proportion? Seriously? There is unemployment, war, people dying of starvation (not the asian skanks though). Is this really such a serious issue?