Why aren't we grateful?

Why are we not grateful to Allah swt for our life, our health, our jobs, our food? Why do we (I am including myself in this as well) so focused on small and petty issues that we forget to appreciate the bigger things in life?

I heard about 3 incidents today that just shocked me and made me realize how blessed I am and yet not happy.

  1. My husband’s neighbor shot himself because he lost his job and could not support his family anymore. He didn’t die and has been taken to the hospital. Noone knows what condition he’s in. He was jobless since a year now and couldn’t take it anymore.

Today my husband saw two cases in ICU:

  1. This really young girl, in mid teens and very smart one, was walking with her mother to school today. This one car crashed into another one which spun out of control, killed the girl’s mother on the spot and hit the girl so hard that she went flying and hit her face right into the fire hydrant. I don’t want to elaborate on what her condition is now because I am sure you guys can guess. She’s still in ICU and doesn’t even know her mother is no more.

  2. This guy was with his wife in the car (who was driving it), something must have happened and they got into a heated argument, she said something like I don’t want to be with you and I am going to kill myself, and the guy jumped out of the car to attempt suicide while ON THE HIGHWAY and got hit by another car. He’s now paralyzed in the hospital.

All that made me just so so so sad. I can’t ever imagine my life without my mom, I can’t imagine what it will be like if I wasn’t able to move tomorrow or if I had a family to support but had no job :frowning: It’s depressing. After listening to all that, I cannot even imagine complaining about anything! How my day was so tiring or certain people on GS are pissing me off or why was Transformers sold out last night.. if this is how we deal with the regular problems in our lives, what will we do when (may Allah swt forbid) we get hit with bigger things and tests from him? Everyday in your life, please take out just a few minutes to thank the Almighty for giving us so much which we don’t even deserve. Shukr Alhumdulillah.

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Lack of gratitude is one of our biggest problems. We must learn to count our blessings.

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true i agree....when we are in bad time than we remember allah but when we are in good time than we just forget to thank him

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Satan corrupts our minds, making us fall in to material dept until we completely lost conscious of God and listen to our will instead of God's.

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Sadly we dont notice our blessings until we see someone without them. We should be so grateful to have the things we do.

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Good post. I try to take at least 5 mins out of day to appreciate what little I have.

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So true.....I think we should all always thank Allah for whetever situation we are in...coz it can always be much worse...Allah sab ko sehath de ameen

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^ Agree totally Tabu. Pareezay, its easy to forget what we are blessed with, thanks for highlighting.

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Exactly, we need to start being more thankful towards Allah swt, count our blessings iA.

Thanks for the much needed reminder sister

May Allah swt instill in us the blessed qualities of sabr and shukr. infact i was once reading a book and it said there's actually nothing to do 'sabr' about cos if we realize whatever state we are in we should be grateful cos it can be much much worse..

Thanks once again

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The 'human' ingredient.

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Ya Allah thankyou so much for everything you have given me

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True True pareezay...

Soemtimes it's not about having what you want all the time and more about wanting what you've got already

Agreed..

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A wonderful reminding thread.

However, i think why we forget ungratfulness somtimes is because of the busy and competitive pace of our lives.

every day= lots of work = busy = hectic = stress = fed up= im so tired life is so ****=...

any, way alhumdulillah Allah has granted me so much. I just need a good wifey now. Thats the only thing left.

wish me luck pple.