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what means out of control? I'm not rude to you, just true...

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are you serious?it means when they break things,fight with other kids etc etc,its my pov if its making you sick ur problem deal with it.if you like them i dont now what? just coz of that ur gonna tell me my views makes you frigging sick dude thats called being rude

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are you serious or didn’t I smoke proper ganja today? :konfused:

Do kids break things intentionally? who doesn’t fight? Some kids may be on crack, but you can’t generalize it. What makes you impatient? We have to deal with it, we can’t run away…

The only thing we can do is making them better human beings. Better than us, because I see alot of flaws in myself, here @GS. The thinking has changed. Man proposes, God disposes.

I’m obsessed by kids and I’d show my kid to everyone. You play with the kid, the kid will be grateful. Be creative, do something with a kid, do what you want. Make the kids smile, ask them about their interests. Kids have a tongue, kids have feelings, you’re not told to adopt the kid. Give him/her few good moments.

You all were kids once, what happened to you? Were you all PERFECT?

@Soni:

I hope the people you’re talkin’ about read what you wrote. I hope they never THROW their kid infront of you. That is not only my hope, it is my wish and prayer…I pray no one shall ever throw his kid infront of you and tell you to play with him/her…

by the way, everyone fights…

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girls who’re complaining about children being annoying, will become great mothers in future. :rolleyes:

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they won't even become mothers...

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yeah i agree...most likely they won't.

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God i actually thought u knew alot about Islam but i guess no one told you only Allah knows but ur predicting future now

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samaraali22, don't pick and choose your islam..

while islam teaches us that only Allah knows the future, Islam also teaches us that we should be kind towards others, it also teaches us that we should be polite towards others..

this thread is a lost cause and my statement in my previous post still stands

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so ur saying its ok for them to say things like they wont even get to be mothers,n when did i say i hate kids i dont y dont u really read my post all it says it gets alil frustating sometimes when kids are batamezz n y it gets frustating that u just cant say anything to them or their parents i never said beat them up or throw them.y the hell gs is becoming lets pick on somone if someone doesnt like something they just dont y are people taking it sooo personally

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The future has already been predicted...

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WHen you are ready to have a child with the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and when it actually happens, its the most wondrous thing that you could possibly imagine. So naturally, you want to share, you want others to experience this incredible happiness and fulfillment.

I used to think I would never ever have kids. THey were gross, disgusting, drooly, poopy little creatures that required constant attention that I did not have patience to give. Yet once I had my very own, I turned into one of those dreaded aunties that encourage proliferation of the species lol!

Its nothing more than wanting to share the wonder and joy of life.

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:confused:there is really no point arguing with you.u really cant handle someone with different opinions so wat do i say to a person like that:rolleyes: @numb

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I'm not arguing with you, I think you hallucinate. Do you really call your Opinion "OPINION"?
What a dishearting opinion is that? Did you read my opinion on that? Leave the "rude" comments or whatever you blame me for out!

I don't think you're serious. Answer me the damn question I'm asking all the friggin' time. I'm asking for third time:

Weren't you once kids? Were you friggin' PERFECT?
WERE YOU?
WERE YOU?
WERE YOU?

FiLl in tHe BlAnKs...
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ok lets take a deep breath or 4 here lol....

I used to get SO totally grossed out and annoyed when people forced their little drooly, poopy, whiny kids at me and I SWORE I'd NEVA NEVA!!! lol!!!

It is SO very different when you're READY. When you're ready, thats it and you dont see grossness, you dont get annoyed, you see someone who is completely dependent on YOU and YOU alone.

Before that, its a different story. If you arent ready, us aunties should keep our mouths shut as much as possible. Its not always possible cause we are just so overwhelmed with the joys/sorrows/challenges/triumphs of parenthood. Its truly the toughest job you will ever love...but heck, you have to be ready for it and sometimes its hard for us aunties to stop shoving this down your young throats yeah?

Enjoy your life as much as you can. And when you're READY and you have your little ones, THEN you will really and truly enjoy life. I do not say this in a mean way at all. I say it as one who has been thru it and has come to realize the true meaning of life - as I personally see it.

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ur rude first you told me that my views are making u sick then i wuld never be a mother blah blah blah how do u want me to forget that. wats ur way of living love all the kids n make all the adults suffer,dude if ur into getting high im not i dont hallucinate n i was not perfect no one can be but my mother made sure we behave.plz dont take things this seriously u ll get sick Allah na karey

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:)lolz well plz dont think i wrote that i dont like kids i do even when someone is forcing me to talk to them or play with them i do, i was only talking about the ones that are batamezz n their folks dont say anything at all

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You will insha'allah become a mother, but your views are still makin' me sick :D

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lolz i wish i culd help you

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I think I should help you...

that'S enough now...everything has been said...have a nice one!

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no plz u can keep ur help to urself, this was the only thing left to say