Ok as usual sadzzz has to come by and start her own thing in the middle of another thread… 
sadzzz- finding that rare gem and hanging onto him leads me to the question…
**why do women then get classified as being easy? if ur hanging on to that lovely opal.. why are u told to play games? **
What games? Who tells you to play games? to do what?
Waqas,may u find a suitable guy to play games with and have a happy life. :)
hahahaha
kabaddi? kirkit? pittu garam? which games r we talking about? :D
irem - that's what I want to know too!? lol
Sadzz ..what the heck are you talking about here??
children... what i meant was, why does a girl "need" to play games when she likes someone? why cant she just be upfront about it and admit her feelings? why do we "have" to wait for the guy to make the move? wouldnt life be just easier and less regretful if we just made that move ourselves? hmmm the miseries of life
Says who!? Honestly I dunno about other guys but if a girl starts playing stupid mind games with me instead of just being straight forward with me ... that's when I walk away.
I remember catwoman gave me some great advice a while back and said if you like someone you should just be straight and honest about it... especially since we're muslim and i believe most of us are not just looking to just 'pass time' but would really like to find someone special and eventually get married.
Anyhows... now I'm even more curious ..exactly what kind of games do you girls play
to show you're interested that we clueless guys need be aware of?
catty wasn’t the only one to give u that advice… 
Great topic…
More than once I myself have been told by my ‘more sophisticated in the relationships department’ friends that I need to play men’s games or else they’ll easily be bored with the predictability in a relationship. Waqas, here I think to myself (as you would) “say’s who?!” but again, I guess there do exist some unspoken ‘rules of the game’ that you are supposed to subconsciously abide by or drive the person that you’re attracted to, away. Who knows?!
Again though, I myself don’t know why playing games is necessary because in my view, games make life that much more difficult and stressful, and there are more chances of being led to dishonesty and fakeness in a relationship. Who needs that crap?
What is wrong with being truthful, direct, and laying it out on the line so that you’re 1) not wasting your own time and 2) not wasting the other person’s time.
To me, whoever advocates this whole ‘playing games in a relationship is the way to go’ motto will more likely than not end up falling into some major pitfalls in the longrun.
