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i would! but just clear this bit up. cuz i m ean...it'll all depend on the situation.
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mahnoor,
You knew him from before. You had asked him to come hime with his mom, so he did.
Your granny is accusing you of talking to him on the day he came over with his mom. She may think that this accusation is big, but why do you? Why does it bother you? Just tell her (and the rest of the family) that he came over to talk to me to get to know me, so what if he did? Why are you (or why do you need to be) defending yourself?
The rishta is pakka now. Why does anything even matter anymore? MiaN biwi Razi to kya karega Qazi? Tell your granny to be happy for you and leave the rest behind. If she insists on you talking to him, tell her that Ok you did and that there was nothing wrong with that.
Believe me, there are bigger things to worry about in life. It could have been worse. What if Dadi straight out said that she didn't like the Rishta at all and that the boy is Kala Mawali?
Re: why are people...?
You knew him from before. You had asked him to come hime with his mom, so he did.
Your granny is accusing you of talking to him on the day he came over with his mom. She may think that this accusation is big, but why do you? Why does it bother you? Just tell her (and the rest of the family) that he came over to talk to me to get to know me, so what if he did? Why are you (or why do you need to be) defending yourself?
The rishta is pakka now. Why does anything even matter anymore? MiaN biwi Razi to kya karega Qazi? Tell your granny to be happy for you and leave the rest behind. If she insists on you talking to him, tell her that Ok you did and that there was nothing wrong with that.
Believe me, there are bigger things to worry about in life. It could have been worse. What if Dadi straight out said that she didn't like the Rishta at all and that the boy is Kala Mawali?
i am annoyed about rumours spreading about me and i didnt talk to himmmm at allllllll so why am i being blamed for something i didnt do
well thanks for ur suggestion it felt goood
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^ well some rumors are there to enjoy. Its a happy ending after all. The gal and the guy talked at 'bar dikhawa' and it was love at first sight (even if it wasn't really a first sight). They ended up marrying each other and lived happily ever after.
Whats wrong with that picture?
Spread it yourself. Help your dadi out. Put some salt and pepper on what you spread out. Take it a step further. Tell her that he told you about your eyes being beautiful. You Dadi will go "aaaaa haaye" but its all good. You are marrying him for cryin' out loud.
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Whats wrong with that picture?
Spread it yourself. Help your dadi out. Put some salt and pepper on what you spread out. Take it a step further. Tell her that he told you about your eyes being beautiful. You Dadi will go "aaaaa haaye" but its all good. You are marrying him for cryin' out loud.
hehe tht was funny
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Seriously though... who does she think you should be talking to if not your husband to be?
Make sure she doesn't find out about our conversation here on GS. Boy, would I be in trouble.
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Make sure she doesn't find out about our conversation here on GS. Boy, would I be in trouble.
hahah sure u will be in trouble she got a special danda with her from which she sortted many people out:D
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wot woulld u girls have done if u were in my position?
aww poorr uu....dnt wryy everything will b fine..n ur grandma sounds pretty extreme to me...i mean iv bin engaged for over a year now n iv bin talkin to my fiance the whole time..my parents hav no problem wid that n neither dus my family or any1.....the more ulguys communicate n stuff the more u guys will understand eachother n thas wut a realtionship is based on....dnt u think...maybe u shud talk to ur mommy...or sum1..