Re: Why are people so insensitive…
One thing you MUST learn about people…they’re not mind readers!
Re-read the above portion that you yourself wrote. If the in-laws don’t know that a divorce has been filed…the no, they do NOT “know the situation”. And from the in-laws perspective…“most likely they will never reconcilate” does not mean that the marriage is over. This means there is a slight chance they marriage will go on.
So from the in-laws point of view…regardless of how bad the girl has been treated…she’s technically still their daughter-in-law and part of their family.
So no…in this situation…the in-laws are not being rude at all. On the other hand…if the girl hasn’t told the in-laws that she will not be their “bahu” anymore…then its wrong for her to expect them to stop treating her like one. From what I understood from you post…the girl was mistreated by her husband…not her in-laws (although the in-laws are aware of the ill treatment).
And here the BEST part about this Nadz: This is NONE of your business! This is 0 effect on you, your husband, and your children. And honestly, given the issues you have within your own marriage…I would highly recommend you do not give this situation a 2nd thought.