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here is what i understand from the people of pakistan who hate pakistan.
in pakistan everything is about being "fashionable" it's more of a fashion to hate pakistan, and wants to move out of there. it's consider a cool thing. those people do everything to copy western countries, they will speak english with fake accent, and teach their kids english because urdu is so backwards. they will use only imported goods, and make sure to tell people that stuff at their house is not "local". they live in pakistan but mentally they don't. when these kinds of people move out of pakistan, they continue with their behavior of putting their own country down, in other way they are always putting their own self down, but never realizing it.
I cant agree more to this post. It is considered fashion-able, people think they are way above those standards and dissing the country & people will make them superior. In my view they are purely hypocrites. Majority people marry of their kids in Pakistan due to their brought up - yes yes! i know now even Pakistani kids are way over the lines but even then there is a vast majority that is decent & potential rishtas - the 'family making' type of brought up does exist which is why still a lot many people have inclination to Pakistan & i too agree with them.
As for your uncle Nadz, he sure has double standards.
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I know - this is true! I once opened up this thread on GS just after being annoyed by the constant bashing of Pakistan & Pakistanis by people all the time.
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/315182-desis.html
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If I talked about my views on life in front of most desi aunties, they would get horrified and maybe slap me and say, "*hamari society mein ye nahi chalta!"
**I think you get the gist of what I'm saying.*..
I have no idea what you are saying... i still don't know what you mean by Liberal and Open-Minded...
You are not face to face with desi aunties or anyone, you can be open about ur views... no one can slap you here..
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You know, just leave it. You probably understand. Anyways, I believe in freedom in all aspects of life, no interference in my affairs until I harm someone and gender equality. All of which Pakistan doesn't have.