I guess it happens. My fiance and I were together for 3 years before we got engaged.[/quot
Wow u r soooooo lucky u know dat??? mashallah mashallah......
but im sure ypur fiancee must not have done all of this when u were going out rite????
I wouldnt have gotten engaged to him if he ever did that. lol I can't imagine spending my life with someone who even once in their life tried to avoid me. But inshallah one day you'll be lucky enough to find a guy like that...that just won't wanna let u go no matter what :) and that will be the guy for u!
we were both in school well I still am he was 2 years ahead of me so he graduated. And I knew my family wouldnt give me to him until he was stable. We had it all planned and it worked out well. It's sort of like you know u'll be with this person for the rest of ur life but u just wanna wait for the right time to make it official.
awww u guys should still be in the "honeymoon" stage hehe. But I hope it works out for u if u want him. Just dont go after him let him come to u :).
i'll definetely follow wat u say Maverick!!
I guess all i can do rite now is just keep praying to Allahtallah to make him realise and bring him back to me.........
we were both in school well I still am he was 2 years ahead of me so he graduated. And I knew my family wouldnt give me to him until he was stable. We had it all planned and it worked out well. It's sort of like you know u'll be with this person for the rest of ur life but u just wanna wait for the right time to make it official.
i'll definetely follow wat u say Maverick!!
I guess all i can do rite now is just keep praying to Allahtallah to make him realise and bring him back to me.........
I'm not telling you what to do, but I'd suggest questioning whether or not dating is Islamically acceptable before you start praying. You should ask your wali (or father),about this too, so he can see about the guy.
He proposed as in to go out wid him, not to marry him!!!!
Dating is just for the first couple of months I believe once it's longer than that u're in a relationship. And Nadia I guess it was normal of him to do that cuz i personally think if a guy came up to me and asked me to marry him I would say no cuz it wouldnt make any sense to me. You obviously get to know each other and shouldnt rush into getting married right away especially when it's u making the decision and ur parents are not involved. So don't feel bad about that :)
no it wasn't dating right after we both knew what we wanted. To me when you're dating someone there is no committment but when ur in a relationship ur committed to that person.
lolzzzzz wow u wanna kno why? cuzx dey fantasize bout many many women...ok welll elme tel u ..i was wit dis guy for like a year and more, on and off he wud start being pain in da butt not picking up avoiding me, n den a breakup and after a week he callz saying sorry, i never understood wat it was dat goes in his mind, so yea all dat happend n den last year i went to paki, wit da same old break up crap wit him , n he calls me dere for sorry n crap ...9 months i was away lolz maybe datz why he was relieved, sonow im bak and he tellz me he misses me n crap but i had doubtz botu lots of stufff i heard so i made a fake id wit some other gurlz pic, and startin frliting wit him , and he was so into it, n da stuff he was tellin was jus heartbreaking, now im out for revenge...AND I WILL GET IT HEHE im not his slaved gf :) itz time for some bussiness to be done.
lolzzzzz wow u wanna kno why? cuzx dey fantasize bout many many women...ok welll elme tel u ..i was wit dis guy for like a year and more, on and off he wud start being pain in da butt not picking up avoiding me, n den a breakup and after a week he callz saying sorry, i never understood wat it was dat goes in his mind, so yea all dat happend n den last year i went to paki, wit da same old break up crap wit him , n he calls me dere for sorry n crap ...9 months i was away lolz maybe datz why he was relieved, sonow im bak and he tellz me he misses me n crap but i had doubtz botu lots of stufff i heard so i made a fake id wit some other gurlz pic, and startin frliting wit him , and he was so into it, n da stuff he was tellin was jus heartbreaking, now im out for revenge...AND I WILL GET IT HEHE im not his slaved gf :) itz time for some bussiness to be done.
Gosh!!!!!! guys can b such cheaters and liars isint it????? how can they just play wid sum1s emotions?????
Gosh!!!!!! guys can b such cheaters and liars isint it????? how can they just play wid sum1s emotions?????
Learn from your mistakes. If you're interested in more than must messing around, you should get your wali involved. He's supposed to help you find a decent guy.
wel guyz r guys, aur eint ka jawab pathar sey, n wat i learned froo mmy mistake is dont lose ur emotions infront of a guy, or let them know of ur weakness they will always take adantage of it.:)
wel guyz r guys, aur eint ka jawab pathar sey, n wat i learned froo mmy mistake is dont lose ur emotions infront of a guy, or let them know of ur weakness they will always take adantage of it.:)
Very true loil_ash!!
Btw how r planning on taking revenge from him?? lemme know as well.......