its always them... nothing wrong with me...
very true....
its always them... nothing wrong with me...
very true....
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Spocky, call it what you want but it works!
Men are always interested in women that are NOT interested in them. Wierd, but its the nature of the beast. They like the chase just as much as we do.
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what is this discrimination going on against guys??
I dont appreciate it at all. We need to be considerate and polite. :)
hehe
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That's been my experience. I'm attracted to physically fit guys, but have been disappointed severely. In each case, they have been disrespectful, rude, never ever give compliments, don't have personality because they are consumed with their image and really think they are gods gift to women. They can't hold decent conversations either and think that because of their looks, they can easily get their way with you (physically).
I shall stick to the homely, chubby ones from now on.
**:) You are so right....................Looks do help
some can even end up in the White House................:D
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PM Bhai, you KNOW its true! Men are not interested in anyone who pays too much attention to them.
Laffy, aap behosh kyun hogaye?
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luk 4rndz. i think boys shoudnt b rude to girls (bt i m) but only to those who oftenly like to talk about boys. luk i hav a rule, i.e. a boy shud hate the girl who cmes 4 him n a girls shud the boy if he cmes 4 him bt if thy r in true luv (whch z v.hard 2 find in now days) thn situation z gud
i've noticed though, the better looking ones (as well as idiots) are easier to pull............ their so big headed they think they can get any girl........the trick is to ignore em, show em their not gud enough lol:D!
lol thats so true nd it works!
thats wen they start being straight but as soon as they know u need them theyy will start being wat they are!
Strange enuff, but I work with REALLY good looking guys.. (models and actors) and out of say 100, only 3 are horrible! Good looking men don't always demand attention, but when a girl gives so much attention they love it!
Same thing with girls.. when a nice looking guy gives them attention they love it!
Excessive attention can have a negative impact on one's personality regardless of looks, even. Psychologists believe that people who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder.....could have possibly developed the disorder from EXCESSIVE praise and attention given by caretakers during childhood. I've even seen kids as young as 4-5 years old behave in a disturbingly arrogant manner....and it's because parents not only spoil them, but validate their nakhray! And this is not your usual temper tantrums and normal whiny behavior that kids often display........no way.....I'm talkin exorcist freaky!!!
Good looks and "nakhra's" come together winks
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just dont go for looks then? change the criteria :) simple
Very interesting analogies redvelvet. PSquared, your response was very enlightening too. It just so happens that on Saturday I met up with a friends friend who turned out to be a complete jerk-off and expected [me] to boost his ego. He didnt let me order first, lit up a cigarette solely because I told him I dont like being around smokers. I hardly ate my food, and asked for the bill after a few bites. Surprisingly he paid, I usually would offer but I'm like, let the jackass get the bill. And he had the audasity to demean me and call me boring because I'm a virgin. This is the 2nd time a good-looking Muslim guy has done this. My other normal looking guy friends are incredibly sweet in comparison.
*I have to admit though, the reason I met him was coz I was flirting madly with him on new years eve and he knew I wanted him, so he asked me out to dinner. Didn't expect him to act like a sleazebag though.
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That's been my experience. I'm attracted to physically fit guys, but have been disappointed severely. In each case, they have been disrespectful, rude, never ever give compliments, don't have personality because they are consumed with their image and really think they are gods gift to women. They can't hold decent conversations either and think that because of their looks, they can easily get their way with you (physically).
I shall stick to the homely, chubby ones from now on.
catty, your observation is counter to the observattions of psychologists/sociologists. Good lookign people are more at ease wit themselves and in general have fewer personality quirks than ppl who are not good looking. yeah you have shallow idiots, but on the other side you have ppl with hangups and chips on their shoulders.
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girls are just ticked cuz they go for guys who are out of their leagues and when rejected lashing out, cuz you know, the issue has to be with the guys.
and then there are those who will just go for someone because of his looks and tahts it, and when he understands that he is just some sort of trophy squeeze and backs
Or girls get so into some guy based on looks alone, that they forget to see who the person is, and then blame theior lack of judgement on the entire male gender.
its not much different than guys going to chicas who are simply out of their league and when shot down just saying oh they are such errr #@#$# and all.
same phenomenon..diff players.
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basically, one ought not to generalise :)
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**The epic tragedy of girls are when they fall for a guy because of his looks and later discovers that they would much rather be with someone else whom they can label negatively as fat, nerdy, unfit or positively as caring, loving, smart etc.
In short, girls are comfortable being with someone whom they think do not deserve them (the fat nerdy caring guy) but not with someone whom they’ll have to make an effort with (the good looking hunk). ![]()
P.s. Not one of you would walk away if Salman Khan proposes you tomorrow and follow you around for 24 hours… you can deny all you want but denial is not going to help.**
I'd walk away from a Salman Khan proposal. And no, it's not denial. He doesn't appeal to me. I don't see what the big deal is about him. He's known as the Bollywood Brat.....and I don't get his acting. When he's crying, he looks like he's laughing. His acting skills are weaker in comparison to the other KHANS, in my opinion. And his dance moves typically consist of flailing his arms from side to side. Anyone notice that? Oh well...
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^ Salman Khan is has never attracted me...lets talk about Aamir Khan if you want. He is a cutie!
Seriously though, I have seen men that are so involved with their looks they seem to forget simple things like manners. Its not something Im attracted to so if I ever noticed it even slightly, I was out of that situation in no time.
Im not really into pretty boys though or too much muscle.