That’s been my experience. I’m attracted to physically fit guys, but have been disappointed severely. In each case, they have been disrespectful, rude, never ever give compliments, don’t have personality because they are consumed with their image and really think they are gods gift to women. They can’t hold decent conversations either and think that because of their looks, they can easily get their way with you (physically).
I shall stick to the homely, chubby ones from now on.
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I am not ;)
Hi Cat-woman,
It's a common stereotype....and although there are exceptions to the generalization (guys who are handsome AND nice as well), research has proved that good looking people (both men and women) tend to get treated better by society. Experiments have even been conducted to prove this. There is even something called the Halo-effect, where good looking people are almost immediately assumed to possess positive qualities such as friendliness, warmth, honesty, innocence, etc. An experiment was conducted where given the choice between a good-looking suspect and an ugly one, people were more likely to accuse the ugly one of being guilty...when he might actually be innocent. Even BABIES will stare at attractive faces longer. Interesting isn't it?
Some people theorize that attractive people receive much FAVORABLE attention due to their good looks from a young age....so they get used to this attention, which could be responsible for that over-confident behavior. Of course there are attractive people who are beautiful on the INSIDE as well because they were encouraged to cultivate other facets of their personalities besides their appearance. And they are wise enough to realize that beauty is only transient.
On the positive side, research has also proved that while humans are initially mesmerized with beauty, they ALSO have the intelligence to reject someone who has an offensive personality.
Physical attraction is an essential component in a relationship, but it's not the only one most people take into account. I hope you soon find someone who you find attractive and who also has a personality that is compatible to yours, Aameen:)
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Catty, Ive met them and aside from some arm candy...there not good for much else. I hate to say it but some of my very own cousins...so consumed with their appearances its annoying!
Im sure there are those who are not conceited and actually think before they act immaturely. Ive only met a couple though.
If you're looking for a meaningful relationship, avoid those at all costs. When you take the time to get all dolled up, they should notice and say something nice. When you're out, they should hold the door open, make sure you're okay, let you order first, etc. No matter how cute he is, if he isnt thinking about me...then he gots to go!
Im old fashioned in that sense, yeah. I like flowers, candy, the romance, compliments, chivalry, etc.
Ditto, PSquared. I too have met few who are blessed with the rare combo of good looks and a nice heart. NOTHING, not even a pretty face, can replace good manners, chivalry, etc. After all, how long can you tolerate a frickin Narcissus when his/her personality is so toxic?
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well I guess, not all the chubby ones are nice. so I guess guys who has looks got into their heads still be less when compared to similar females who think they are goddesses!
in my view as a guy, not all smart guys are dickheads, and not all chubby ones are nicer! there are guys who are smart by mind and also by appearance. but when you look for only very very metrosexuals who take care of them near to gays, certainly they will be spending less time on their minds but only on appearance. you need to fix that only.
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:D :D :D
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because good looking girls are *****es. :halo:
you know.. back when i wasnt married and was worried bout everry rishta that would drop by, worry what the guy was really like.. i would look around at the married friends and i honestly could single out the happy couples and the not so happy ones.. by how good looking the husbands were 
somehow, the happiest of my friends were married to average looking men whilst the not so happy ones were married to studs… i remember one rishta where i looked at the pic and told my mom.. hmm.. he’s chubby and squint eyed and not at all good looking, i bet he would make a good husband hehhehe…
I remembered watching a documentary once.....or was it in a book? Anyhoo, even nature....the most beautiful and colorful/vivid animals are the ones that are most toxic or poisonous! SO the other animals stay away from them. The thought just came to my mind. Had to share it. I thought it was funny.
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Very interesting analogies redvelvet. PSquared, your response was very enlightening too. It just so happens that on Saturday I met up with a friends friend who turned out to be a complete jerk-off and expected [me] to boost his ego. He didnt let me order first, lit up a cigarette solely because I told him I dont like being around smokers. I hardly ate my food, and asked for the bill after a few bites. Surprisingly he paid, I usually would offer but I'm like, let the jackass get the bill. And he had the audasity to demean me and call me boring because I'm a virgin. This is the 2nd time a good-looking Muslim guy has done this. My other normal looking guy friends are incredibly sweet in comparison.
I have to admit though, the reason I met him was coz I was flirting madly with him on new years eve and he knew I wanted him, so he asked me out to dinner. Didn't expect him to act like a sleazebag though.
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Not all of us are rude or self-obsessed. Some of us are actually very kind, considerate and empathetic people who are able to hold an intelligent conversation. Don't stereotype.
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Post your pic plz so I can tell you truthfully whether you're hot or not.
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Not all of us are like that.
Stay clear of Bad boyz
Ps. Catty , I always find you interesting 
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wow @ the strong language...
Post your pic plz so I can tell you truthfully whether you're hot or not.
I don't want to be vulgar and post it on a public forum. I can email it to you.
I shall stick to the homely, chubby ones from now on.
they truly make better hubby. the physically fit make better lovers. that's all.
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Its time for guys to come up with their own thread! Punching Monk, do the honors! 
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First let me enjoy being called **** head.
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^^ i guess thats what cat-woman is talking abt...^^just full of yourself :)