That is exactly what I said … Fasting is about staying without … what this boy has done is tried to do more things to get, but for the inner condition to gain he needs to exercise reduction and self restraint. No magic here!
I like the youtube video
Giving charity will help because it does … proven thing. Even if the intention is not right. You are either made to pass something you want willingly or unwillingly to others again it is the exercising of self-restraint.
He is looking for happiness but really that is not the right word for it … He is looking for balance. For a person who has got everything from day 1, will not necessarily develop the sense of appreciation … that can be achieved when you go without what you want.
Army camp does treat people and makes them savour the lives they used to have.