Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relatives?
why its only for gentle people as they remain scincere with others. then why the world forces them to tackle others politically rather then by going on with scincerity?
Plz Debate on this issue.
Re: Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relati
Life is always harder for the ones who always stick to doing what the right-thing-to-do is.
People take their goodness for granted. Thus, there is little appreciation and more burden put on these super people.
Re: Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relati
vat u say?
Re: Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relati
you can be gentle, sincere yet assertive.
being a gentleman does not mean to be meek or weak or not stand up for your rights.
Much of the issues I have seen in khandani drmay baazi is that all this backchannel khusur phusur among people. People push others around because they know that the typical sharm-hazoori and rakh-rakhao would prevent people from doing anything about it. they get a kick of it and a power trip. There is a lot of deniability and "thats not what I said" and "thats not what I meant" type of things.
call people out, the perp as well as the gossipers and just say, hey I want to get to the bottom of this, this what I heard, it came from these sources. so what is the deal and how do we solve it and address it. when ppl know that you will deal with BS only so much and then you will call people out..it quickly thins out the number of such ppl.
Re: Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relati
People often confuse being nice with being moral. Consider you're well prepared for an exam, a friend of yours is not and asks you to help him during the exam. The nice thing would be to help him, but the moral thing would be not to help them. The two have consequences of varying degrees in terms of short-term and long-term results. If it is a one time scenario that your friend is in absolute need and couldn't prepare for the exam for a very*legitimate * reason, I would say, take the risk. However, if they ask for (and expect) help each time and you do, then you're not really being nice to them. As a short-term aspect you could be helping them, but you'd also be a contributor to the bad long term consequences. So don't be * nice * all the time. If you follow just that, you'd hardly regret anything. Ever.
Re: Why a gentleman or a gentlewoman is pressed hard in our society and in the relati
cuz others are not gentle, i mean else are are u expecting from not so gentle ppl.
we also have such ppl on the forum (always ready to evoke the evil :p)
ji ji aur zobia ki shakal bta rahi hai k shayad wo person bhi zobia hi hon ge.
:D