If you’re trolling…get a life.
If you can’t manage to do that…come up with better troll topics.
If you’re in earnest about your topics…that’s even MORE sad.
Your views thus far have been that:
**1) **Women should be stay at home moms and shouldn’t work (you didn’t take into account the various situations)
2) People should stay in a broken/dysfunctional marriage for the sake of the kids. (again not taking into account that every marriage is different)
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3)** And you tactlessly told a member that you were shocked that she STILL wasn’t married at the age of 30 some. (It’s funny you should say something like that considering that YOU yourself are not married yet).
But alas…there’s always that possibility that one is not trolling around and is serious about the threads they create. In that case…you need to understand that everybody has a different kismat. And to get in the way of someone’s happiness is selfish. Yes, it may be easier said than done to be wholeheartedly happy for a younger sibling getting married, first. But…how long is one supposed to wait for you to get your life at the point you want it to be at? This is the real world. Friends and coworkers and strangers won’t wait for you. Your family, at least, will have the heart to consider your feelings and wait a bit. That’s zulm. There are so many things in life that we may not be truly happy about…but to preserve relationships…you have to grin and bear it. I have friends and cousins in the same situation as you. And they were happy and supportive for their younger siblings when they got married before them. The same Allah who grants other people blessings also controls your life as well. He has a plan for everyone.
********If you ARE trolling…the sad thing is that some people (naive ones) may be wrongly influenced by your ideas.