ok say u guys get onto fight with bf/gf/fiance whtevr .. n it was ur fault so u said sorry but that time they were angry n didnt respond n now theyr back but u get the feeling theey want u to reach our ur hand this time urself instead of them even though its their turn !
would u be right in refusing to do this or is it just ur ego ? .. what would u do ? ..
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There shouldn't be turns in reaching your hand out- surely if you're in the wrong, you apologise and move on. If the other party is still being moody then call them up on it, ask them why and try and clear the air instead of second guessing things and playing games.
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i dont expect people to accept my apologies right away. I give them some space.
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ok say u guys get onto fight with bf/gf/fiance whtevr .. n it was ur fault so u said sorry but that time they were angry n didnt respond n now theyr back but u get the feeling theey want u to reach our ur hand this time urself instead of them even though its their turn !
would u be right in refusing to do this or is it just ur ego ? .. what would u do ? ..
It really really depends on the situation.
For example if I swore at someone for something or acted rudely and later on realised it wasnot their fault and I should not have swore then I'll say "I am very sorry for swearing at you/acting rudely with you. It was very bad of me. I realised it later on therefore I am very very sorry". Now if to this they are gonna expect me to cry infront of them and then apologise or beg on my knees and apologise then NO i wont do that because I wont expect that from someone if they have been bad with me but later on apologised. mere liye yehi kaafi hoga ke mistake realise ker li aur maafi maang li.
On contrast if during a fight (khudanakhwasta) I killed someone or broke someone's leg thinking it was their fault and that I was too angry. And then later on I realise that it wasnot their fault at all and that I shouldnot have acted in that manner then for this even if I have to bend down on my knees and apologise then I will do it because in reality my apologies wont bring that person's legs back or the child back (apologising to the parents). I have ruined the life (this will all depend on whether I have courage to face them and actually admitt my mistake and apologise)
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Clear up the misunderstanding and be the bigger person
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thanks everyone .. n thanks blessed for replying in such detail ..
yeah i as also thinkin of clearing the misunderstanding but my mom said no way he is the one who should reach out to u its his turn now .. so ths y im confused now .
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Thats the way I would have to go…
If I was the cause of the trouble then I am always first to try and smoothe things over, sure I know how to be real nasty and hold a grudge but people you love should never be targets for such things… with lovers like that who needs enemies? 
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Egos only create more problems in a relationship.
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