Re: wht shud i do
maybe he feels that because you were both raised so differently, you wouldn't have much in common. try and make an effort to learn more about his interests so that you can have something to share- whether its a hobby of his or reading his favourite book or learning more about his sports team or whatever. i know it sort of seems unfair that you're taking the first step here, but you do seem more concerned about it than he does (at least from what you posted). shared interests can really open up a relationship, and once he realises you're feeling left out and making the effort to be closer, i'm sure he'll reciprocate in kind. if you've had such a formal relationship so far, i can imagine it must be awkward for you to just open up to him about your feelings, and i'll bet he might feel a bit awkward too. try to ease yourself into this process, it won't happen overnight but iA one of these days, there'll be a breakthrough :)