Who's more threatening?

Person A: Opinionated. This person likes to express his/her opinion no matter how different it may be. This person likes to confront and to say what they really think of something/someone. Whats in their heart never stays in their heart and comes right out of their mouths.

Person B: The opposite. Believes in the “if u can’t say something nice, just stay shut and don’t say anything at all” strategy. What this person truly thinks of something/someone isn’t really known because he/she likes to keep it to his/herself.

Who would you rather be friends with and why?

A. because As have always proven themselves to be better friends in comparison to the Bs in my life.

perhaps the B's just don't want to hurt anyone by saying something negative, so they just keep it to themselves. ?

Or it could be because they like to hold onto their "nice image" ... and may backbite...

I'd go for A's too.

Re: Who's more threatening?

A - i hate this kind a people - they always hurts everyone with the bullshyt expressing their opinion no matter how much it's hurts to others. Sometimes... well most of the times you have to keep a lot of stuff in your heart and wait for the appropriate time & situation.

If you can't speak/convey nicely, then better shut your mouth.

One more thing regarding A types are, they are never a good friends, neither good relatives, people probably don't say nothing on their faces but in the back .. they hate types of A class.

^ the people who don't say anything to the A's on their faces are the type B's :) and they backbite just as u said... and so I'd stay away from them.

As long as A's are not rude and bad-tameez, I'd be ok with them.

I'd also go with B.

Isn't the bolded part a contradiction to what you said in your first post?

And I don't find either threatening. I might find A-type annoying though.

contradicting to OP?

contradictory? how? i was just brainstorming as to why B's might not open up to the world as much as A's would.

and firenze puttar tuwada laran da mood haiga? :ASA:

Re: Who's more threatening?

Person A- only think of themselves and are many times believe their own lies.

Re: Who's more threatening?

I'd like someone somewhere in between. Life is not black and white. Sometimes you need someone to back yourself up. In hard times sometime you need someone who can tell you that hard times will end soon (even though he/she can sense that it will not be that quick). Some other times you need someone who is there to give you right advise.

^ thats the best answer so far DC6

naa, the type B don't say anything on their face, because they know typs of A will say something hurting again, so it's more like ignoring.

Probably B are sitting with A Just because of some family Majboori. If they got chance they will ditch A.

so firenze u would be ok with someone who's nice on ur face and then talks shyt about u behind ur back?

chaloo phir water cooler maira howa … Pakistan Zindabaad :jhanda:

backbiting is not copyrighted by B only. A-types done too, and it's worse when they do.

Because A have problem of speaking whatever they can imagine/believe/listen. Types of A mostly just made up their mind as per their thinking, and then don't even hesitate to judge everybody, that's another problem.

as the saying goes...

Think before you speak.

Re: Who's more threatening?

A types maybe good for a short term friendship but in the long run the're not worth wasting your time on. a person who can't respect anothers feelings, says whatever comes to his/her mouth is no good. there should be limitations as to what a person can say about another.

you said that B types are gona backbite. WHAT GUARANTEE do you have that type A's are not gona do the same. my friend is married to an 'A', man shes having a hard time.

so i guess what DC6 said... someone in-between.. ?

Re: Who's more threatening?

^ quite difficult to find, stick with B

Re: Who's more threatening?

B.

it's always the quiet ones.

Person A .Cause person can be a t rue friend.