Re: Who's more mature?
I found this to be true of ABCDs rather than Pakis back home. Local students in hostel used to do all of their stuff by themselves, including laundry and some even did jobs, and took care of their tution fees etc. Compared to those from abroad who used to spend lavishly.
majority of desi dont live in hostels do they?
Same can be said of FOBs landing in USA/UK.
sure, it takes time for them to adapt also. and has nothing to do with maturity, that is what I was hinting at. Yo had brought it up, and my view was that it was irrelevant.
By the way, i too for quite a while beleived that boyz from chuk#42 had low IQ, but if you go beyond their attire and the paindoo accent, they are no way less intelligent than ABCDs.
'too' would indicate that someone else here said that boys from chuck#42 have low IQs. there are a couple of issues with this statement. I never said they had low IQ. Nor am I really concerned aboyt their attire or pandu accent. so lets not keep running on tangents
The issue is of maturity, and fact of the matter is that majority of desi girls in pak at teh age of 20 live in a very protective atmosphere, dont work, are not really responsible for much. the ability to take responsibility fpor oneself, and to do that well shows maturity in my view, and on that scale, most Pakistanis in Pakistan have not had a reason to take personal responsibility and thus do not have that maturity, its not to say that they cant become mature or have an inability to be mature.