Who's fault?

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Hareem! :frowning:

@Khalil_KhaaN_FaaKhta I already wrote a letter to the Head of Administrative Dept. to take strict action against bullies and I hope they will consider it in their weekly meeting.

@Milly as far I remember me or any other student from our batch never had any problem with any other student. But beating my son every second day drives me crazy. I already complained the class-teacher and they assured me that they will take necessary action. I don’t know is the only my son gets bullying or there are other students too. Firstly, I let it go but it’s almost a month my son complaining me daily. Today he told me to change his school.

@redvelvet I understand what you are trying to say but I never allowed my son to go out and play with other kids. I kept him busy whole day. He never mix so quickly with others kids. I taught my kid when you have any problem, come t directly to me and tell me without any fear. So whenever my kid wants to tell me sometime, before he does, I hugs him and take to the market and buy whatever he wants. After that I ask tell what is the problem. I know he won’t lie to me nor he will involve in any fight as I always told him to avoid fighting so he won’t do something where I get embarrass.

I don’t care if the bullying student lie or if their parents going to support him/her if even if he/she is wrong.

@peekaboochildcare! If I don’t accuse school management or teacher responsible for failed to create safe environment than what is use of
such school.

@myasinkhan other colleagues? Who?

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^ Can I ask which country you live in? Here in the UK bullying in school is taken very seriously now. My son is very confident and popular in school, still he was bullied by a couple of boys and he immidiately told his teacher. The teacher called me to explain the incident and the whole thing was dealt with on the same day. The bullies had to apologize to my son and also their parents were phoned and warned. My son tells me those boys are quite friendly with him now :)

Maybe in future you can try my approach. I have told my sons to ALWAYS report bullying to their teacher as soon as it happens, making sure they report it the same day! In my opinion, this is crucial, because it means the teacher gets to hear it straight from the child and that you get an acknowledgement from the teacher rather than you having to report it.

If the child leaves it for a while and then only tells the parents, somehow the schools are slow to take action (maybe because they think the parent is exaggerating, maybe because of time restraints or because they are under resourced staff wise).
But I agree with you , it is the schools job to create a safe environment for its pupils.

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I complained to the Principal and bullying kid's parents were called at school and they signed a parole that he won't repeat it again. So far nothing happen and hope it will remain as it is now.