Im not sure, I might choose 2 ONLY if I see the eagerness to learn and change a little bit.
Attraction is important between people.
If I HAVE to pick.............then I agree with** PS**. I lean more towards 2 because to me attraction is important......and good character is important (which guy #2 has)........but there NEEDS to be eagerness to learn and change a bit as Reha said above.
The only thing is that it's tough to change people. So.....I might wait until I find someone that I feel is more compatible in the various areas.